Absolutely. I'm amazed at the entitlement attitude so many people have.
I have to share what I witnessed just a couple of days ago. True story, I promise, and it's been driving me crazy wondering if I'm being too negative about it.
A family that lives down the street made a bunch of signs, gathered a few neighborhood kids, and aggressively tried to stop every car driving by. Why? They weren't selling baked goods, or lemonade, etc, etc, they were flat out asking for money. OK, again not completely unheard of. Plenty of folks get involved with charities and ask for donations.
So what was their cause? They want to adopt a baby from China. I understand that can be very expensive, and I guess I can sympathize with their plight. ....Except I know they paid $1,040,454 for their house just a couple of years ago.
We live in a very expensive part of the country, so it's not the mansion some people might be imagining at that price point. It's a tract house. But it's a nice tract house in a nice neighborhood; 3,000+ sq ft, on a large lot (by So Cal standards), swimming pool, 3 high end cars in the driveway (and the family is mom, dad, and 1 son who is nowhere near old enough to drive yet) I don't know these folks personally, so I can't say for sure whether they have all the "stuff" mentioned in the posts above. I'd venture to say it's probably safe to assume the answer is yes though.
Seriously? I may be known as the neighborhood grinch from now on, but I stopped, I didn't donate a dime, and instead I strongly suggested that they keep the kids on the sidewalk and not let them run out into the street in their attempt to stop cars.
You want to adopt a baby from China and it's prohibitively expensive? So sell the big house and downsize, get rid of a fancy car or two, etc, etc. Honestly I was appalled at what they were doing.
But I think that type of attitude is prevalent. This is what I want, so this is what I should have, and without personally sacrificing anything to get it. Entitlement.
Sorry it's so long, but my story seems to lend itself so well to the discussion here, and I really have been bothered by it for days. Thanks for letting me share. I think I feel a bit better now.