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Liberty Belle

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a sex offender (sexual assault in the first degree of a very young child) lived within 10 houses of your home, what would you do? Would you show his photo to your children and warn him to stay away if they see the man? Or would you just talk to them about strangers in general? Would you do something else?
 
how old are the children?

I had the same question. Regardless of the age of the child I would show all the adults in the neighborhood his photo so you from a neighborhood watch...not only for your child/children put for all the neighborhood kids.

I would also bring it to the principal in the local school~
 

I would contact the local police and make sure he isn't violating any probation as to living close to children. At the same time I would warn both kids, the older one in more graphic terms, the younger one, tell him that he needs to make sure he knows never to go anywhere with the man, no matter what he might say (dog lost, new kitten, etc). And you need to make sure that you are aware of where both kids are at all times.
 
I would contact the local police and make sure he isn't violating any probation as to living close to children. At the same time I would warn both kids, the older one in more graphic terms, the younger one, tell him that he needs to make sure he knows never to go anywhere with the man, no matter what he might say (dog lost, new kitten, etc). And you need to make sure that you are aware of where both kids are at all times.

::yes::
 
a sex offender (sexual assault in the first degree of a very young child) lived within 10 houses of your home, what would you do? Would you show his photo to your children and warn him to stay away if they see the man? Or would you just talk to them about strangers in general? Would you do something else?
Absolutely show them the photo and tell them to stay away, and give another round of discussion about strangers in general. For a long time we had a picture, sent by the police, of a sex offender on our refrigerator, till my DS was 16. And this guy lived about 3 or 4 miles away, not several houses.
 
What level sex offender? I happen to know of one in our town, who was 18, dating a 16 year old, parents got mad at him and now he is a convicted sexual offender. Some websites give you this information, and some don't. I would want to know the facts first.

Edited to say, I re-read your post. I would let my kids know, and other parents know.
 
That HAS happened to me. A convicted child molester lived in my mother's neighborhood and she watched my kids. One day that guy pulled up to my son and another boy (9 yrs old at the time) and gave them a baseball cap.

NOT COOL! :mad:

I went straight to the police. He'd gotten out of prison before Megan's Law, so there was technically nothing anyone could do, but the chief of police went to his house and laid down the law with him. I warned other parents on the street (hey, it was all public knowledge, and IMO there is no punishment harsh enough for raping a 5 year old boy).

I also told my son what the guy was and was pretty specific without being vulgar. Warned my daughter too when she was old enough.

I think kids can handle knowing the truth.
 
I'd make copies of the info from the police dept and then I'd hang them everywhere-telephone poles,stores and pass out to all neighbors.
 
I would be specific with my own children. And also use it as an opportunity to talk about strangers in general. And also what is unacceptable behavior from adults.
And I would definately show the photo to my 16 year old.

My daughter's friend had a sex offender move in with his mother- next door to them.

My daughter has not been there to play anymore. She can come here. Her friend has 3 sisters. Younger. All in the age range of his prior offenses.

Oh it makes me so very very sick to my stomach that it's not a more serious offense. Why aren't they spending more time in prison?
There isn't rehabilitation for sex offenders. imho.
 
We have had this situation. We have had one live down the street for years and all the neighborhood kids were aware.

I was checking a few months ago and found another had moved 4 houses down from us, right next to one of the "cool" kids where all the kids hang out. The house with the trampoline, basketball hoop and all the neat toys.

I showed all the kids his picture and made them all aware of him. He wasn't around too long, but we do have 5 or 6 within a few blocks of us.
 
I keep tabs on the known sex offenders in our area, but the truth is the unknown sex offenders in any given place far out number the known ones. Consequently, we focus on the children in our neighborhood and we speak up about any potential grooming behavior.

That said, if I know or strongly suspect that someone is a child sex offender, I go to the police about any possible violations such as hanging around playgrounds. I speak up about them within their hearing expressly to make them uncomfortable, hopefully uncomfortable enough to leave town. I tell others what I know, whether they have children or not. I notify everyone who has a legitimate reason to be around children (librarians, park workers, teachers, nannies, ice cream parlor workers, bus drivers, and the rest). Basically anything to prevent a tragedy, within the letter of the law, without rising to legal harassment or driving myself crazy. I don't go out of my way, I simply tell the people that ought to know when we happen to be meeting up for something else.

My child is too young to understand these dangers, though I've impressed on her to never wander off, never go with anyone else, and that sort of thing, but fortunately she's too young to be out of sight, too.
 
I'd make copies of the info from the police dept and then I'd hang them everywhere-telephone poles,stores and pass out to all neighbors.

Unless the person is not allowed to live where he is, you really can't post stuff like that. Yesm you can make your neighbors aware, but you can't harass the person if he is doing nothing illegal.
 
I would harass, harass,harass. I think those people should be put on an island somewhere. :sick:
I would make it so uncomfortable that they would move-or I would.
 
There here and there everywhere around our city. Of course some offenses are more serious than others. I'm not sure if you could live somewhere that wasn't within a couple/few miles of one.

I looked up the info on the guy's home and it is owned by someone with the same last name, but a different first name (male). The offender is 37, but I'm wondering if he lives with his parents? Or maybe they just "gave" him the house. It's a decent house and this is a good neighborhood.

I just looked up his sex offender info again. Under reg. type it has ten years and it says he is on supervised release. That makes it seem kind of recent, maybe?

It has no information about when the crime took place.
 
There here and there everywhere around our city. Of course some offenses are more serious than others. I'm not sure if you could live somewhere that wasn't within a couple/few miles of one.

I looked up the info on the guy's home and it is owned by someone with the same last name, but a different first name (male). The offender is 37, but I'm wondering if he lives with his parents? Or maybe they just "gave" him the house. It's a decent house and this is a good neighborhood.

I just looked up his sex offender info again. Under reg. type it has ten years and it says he is on supervised release. That makes it seem kind of recent, maybe?

It has no information about when the crime took place.

I would still contact the local police, just to make sure he can live where he is legally. Since he is on supervised release, they should be able to tell you who his "supervisor" is and how you can contact him or her. If he is living with in his legal rights, all you can do is make sure your kids are aware that he could pose a danger to them, and be extra careful.
 
I would still contact the local police, just to make sure he can live where he is legally. Since he is on supervised release, they should be able to tell you who his "supervisor" is and how you can contact him or her. If he is living with in his legal rights, all you can do is make sure your kids are aware that he could pose a danger to them, and be extra careful.

There's no school within walking distance, so I bet he is. I don't know what the supervisor would divulge, but maybe they could be some kind of reassurance. I'm not terrified, but my youngest son does play out in the yard by himself and with friends.

The more I look at the guy's picture the more he looks like he could be mentally disabled or delayed somehow. Not that it makes me feel any better. The age of his victim was three at the time the crime occurred. :sad1:
 
There's no school within walking distance, so I bet he is. I don't know what the supervisor would divulge, but maybe they could be some kind of reassurance. I'm not terrified, but my youngest son does play out in the yard by himself and with friends.

The more I look at the guy's picture the more he looks like he could be mentally disabled or delayed somehow. Not that it makes me feel any better. The age of his victim was three at the time the crime occurred. :sad1:

I think that the reassurance is what you need. You may have to be outside when your little one is there with his friends, rather than watching through the window. Now is the time to get together with the other moms and set up a plan to share in the watching.

I would also not look at a picture and think Oh yeah, he is mentally disabled, there is no telling. Maybe he is and what he did, he didn't comprehend it was wrong. To me that is something to be even more aware of, that kind of thing can't be rehabilitated away.

Best of luck with it.
 












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