i want to ask my aunt for a date

[shouldiask]

Ooh...were you moving her in?

i wish i was

 

[Magic Mom]

yes your correct. but i wont know unless i try

Are you willing to cause emotional pain and confusion for the children involved just for your own feelings?

 

[boyob13]

yes your correct. but i wont know unless i try

The potential risks FAR OUTWEIGH the benefits (which are basically just for you). Are you really willing to risk having rocky relationships with your family to satisfy your love life?


(Don't wholeheartedly believe you though.. Just adding my two cents in if it IS real )

 

[shouldiask]

Are you willing to cause emotional pain and confusion for the children involved just for your own feelings?

wouldnt it cause them emotional pain for them having to go to differnt schools?

 

[ccgirl]

yes 2 daughters i think they are about 15 and 12

Whoa!!! That totally changes the situation. I have one word then....boundaries!

First of all, you really like your Aunt but don't know her daughters (your cousins) ages? I don't care what the reason for the divorce is. I think there are boundaries there that shouldn't be crossed.

Those poor girls..."hi this is my stepdad, I mean cousin."

 

[Magic Mom]

wouldnt it cause them emotional pain for them having to go to differnt schools?

For a week or two maybe, but nothing compared to "mommy is shacking up with our cousin."

 

[pixiechick]

wouldnt it cause them emotional pain for them having to go to differnt schools?

cousin inviting the family to move in "to help them out" and then hitting on mom VS. going to a different school...

hhmmmmm.....

is anyone else imagining the music from Jeopardy?

 

[dislaney]

thats my uncles fault he cheated on her. as for my cousins they could go to the same schools they are going to now as we are in the same township.
the older one is in high school so she could possibly go to the same school. the younger one still has a year and a half at her school. with my aunts bad financial record she will have to rent. not too many houses to rent plus they have a dog and a cat. so they will have to find a house to rent that allows animals in the same township. might be hard.as for the other family members they all love her. they will be able to keep in touch better this way.

So you think by moving her in and dating her - you are doing them all a favor!?

Think about the other members of your family and who you would be hurting if you do date your half aunt. Your 41 years old and you can't find a single other woman in your township to date. Join a club, workout, go to the park, surely there must be someone in town (that you aren't related to) to date.

 

[kirbsam]

wouldnt it cause them emotional pain for them having to go to differnt schools?

oh lord, when you put it that way. go for it. no use trying to argue with you. you are one step ahead of us all the time.

 

[ccgirl]

no i dont think its sick shes a half aunt by marriage and shes getting a divorce. shes only about 5 years older than me give or take a year.

You keep saying half aunt. In my family; we don't go around refering to people as half aunt, half cousin, etc. An aunt is an aunt etc. And, that aunt has two daughters and you are being very selfish. PLus, you keep saying your uncle cheated on her. How do you know she hasn't cheated on him? There are two sides to every story.

BTW, I am your exact age and your typing sounds as if it is coming from someone still in high school. What do you do for a living?

 

[Magic Mom]

cousin inviting the family to move in "to help them out" and then hitting on mom VS. going to a different school...

hhmmmmm.....

is anyone else imagining the music from Jeopardy?

I'll take 400 for Ways to screw up your kids, Alex.

 

[shouldiask]

we could go on and on about this. i have to leave right now. i will defintely keep you all inform about what takes place between us if anything i know you all want to hear all about it. still dont know what im going to do. i got a lot of thinking to do. i have to think about should i just ask her out. or should i ask her to move in with me to help her out and the kids going to the same schools? i got a few months until the divorce. but i should ask her soon about moving in shes probaly looking for a place.

 

[pixiechick]

I'll take 400 for Ways to screw up your kids, Alex.

but, but, they're going to be in emotional pain anyway!!

In this scenario, they won't need to buy a new school uniform. Look at the brightside, people!

 

[shouldiask]

but, but, they're going to be in emotional pain anyway!!

In this scenario, they won't need to buy a new school uniform. Look at the brightside, people!

no school uniforms where i live

 

[Magic Mom]

but, but, they're going to be in emotional pain anyway!!

In this scenario, they won't need to buy a new school uniform. Look at the brightside, people!

And it will save space on any family trees the girls decide to create. Step dad and cousin can use the same space.

 

[pixiechick]

no school uniforms where i live

well, now that makes your plan a little questionable then.

And it will save space on any family trees the girls decide to create. Step dad and cousin can use the same space.

phew, the plan's back on then.

 

[shouldiask]

You keep saying half aunt. In my family; we don't go around refering to people as half aunt, half cousin, etc. An aunt is an aunt etc. And, that aunt has two daughters and you are being very selfish. PLus, you keep saying your uncle cheated on her. How do you know she hasn't cheated on him? There are two sides to every story.

BTW, I am your exact age and your typing sounds as if it is coming from someone still in high school. What do you do for a living?

im a factory worker. but i probaly make more than most of you. 26.21 an hour. when bush was in office two years i made over 100 most of the time it was in the 90's. since obama has been in it its been in the 80's alot less overtime. so what is wrong with my grammar is it because i dont captialize my i's?

 

[HelenePA]

im a factory worker. but i probaly make more than most of you. 26.21 an hour. when bush was in office two years i made over 100 most of the time it was in the 90's. since obama has been in it its been in the 80's alot less overtime. so what is wrong with my grammar is it because i dont captialize my i's?

I dont think any one should pick on you for your grammer.. I think the fact you want to date/move in your aunt is enough.

 

[Jordans_Mommie]

thats my uncles fault he cheated on her. as for my cousins they could go to the same schools they are going to now as we are in the same township.
the older one is in high school so she could possibly go to the same school. the younger one still has a year and a half at her school. with my aunts bad financial record she will have to rent. not too many houses to rent plus they have a dog and a cat. so they will have to find a house to rent that allows animals in the same township. might be hard.as for the other family members they all love her. they will be able to keep in touch better this way.

Hilarious!

 

[Wishing on a star]

OMG!!!
Just looking at this thread...
I just keeps getting better and better!!!