i want to ask my aunt for a date

[Elmo9607]

Oh dear

 

[kirbsam]

I just hope all the "troll" posters and posters who obviously don't believe this is a true post get points from the mods... like I did in a similar thread!

that sounds a little whiny. sounds like something a rather immature person would tend to say. just saying.

 

[It'sWDW4me]

Not that it wouldn't be weird anyway but...

does your uncle and aunt(by marriage) have any children together?

Because if they did that would totally be way way too weird.

yes 2 daughters i think they are about 15 and 12

yeh that would be wierd for them....... more then wierd

Scenario: girl brings boyfriend home to meet mom and "Cousin Daddy"

Please...... there have GOT to be other women around.

 

[shouldiask]

im back you guys been busy i have around 60 posts to go through

 

[shouldiask]

OMG with a side of holy crap is this post for real? I for once in my life have nothing to say ,but it sure makes for good entertainment.

yes its real

 

[shouldiask]

I just think this borderlines insest .

why? she is my half aunt by marriage soon to get divorced

 

[cheermom1]

why? she is my half aunt by marriage soon to get divorced

Honey she is not a half aunt! She IS your aunt till she gets divorced. Just thought I'd point that out. Carry on.

 

[shouldiask]

LOL maybe this is a response to the spectacular NYE thread last year!
But IMHO, asking out your aunt is pretty sick. That would be like me asking out my uncle, eugh.
The thought just makes me cringe LOL.

no i dont think its sick shes a half aunt by marriage and shes getting a divorce. shes only about 5 years older than me give or take a year.

 

[S. C.]

no i dont think its sick shes a half aunt by marriage and shes getting a divorce. shes only about 5 years older than me give or take a year.

If you were already ok with asking her then do it. Why ask here?

 

[shouldiask]

Honey she is not a half aunt! She IS your aunt till she gets divorced. Just thought I'd point that out. Carry on.

so your another one who thinks i should wait until the divorce is final. your probaly right i know i should wait. i will probaly wait.

 

[boyob13]

no i dont think its sick shes a half aunt by marriage and shes getting a divorce. shes only about 5 years older than me give or take a year.

In the OP, you said she was 4 years older than you, and now you can't remember?

I'm afraid marrying inside your family won't raise your intelligence.

 

[shouldiask]

In the OP, you said she was 4 years older than you, and now you can't remember?

I'm afraid marrying inside your family won't raise your intelligence.

4,5,6, what the difference she is still the same person

 

[cheermom1]

so your another one who thinks i should wait until the divorce is final. your probaly right i know i should wait. i will probaly wait.

No I was pointing out the obvious that was all. I have no opinion, but that I wouldn't do it. Carry on.

 

[LondonUnderground]

I highly doubt she'll appreciate it. She'll be stressed because of her divorce and then her nephew starts coming on to her?
I'm only a teenager, so... but, I wouldn't risk it.

 

[KinziePooh]

I'm afraid marrying inside your family won't raise your intelligence.

It's ok, she's only his "half" aunt

Even though you're not related by blood, common sense would tell me that this isn't a good idea. Stop thinking about what you want. Think about how your uncle will feel if you date his ex wife. Or how about your cousins, won't that be awkward for them? There's a bigger picture that you're missing. You asking your "half" aunt out will affect a lot of people besides yourself.

 

[ginna74]

If you were already ok with asking her then do it. Why ask here?

ditto....

 

[shouldiask]

It's ok, she's only his "half" aunt

Even though you're not related by blood, common sense would tell me that this isn't a good idea. Stop thinking about what you want. Think about how your uncle will feel if you date his ex wife. Or how about your cousins, won't that be awkward for them? There's a bigger picture that you're missing. You asking your "half" aunt out will affect a lot of people besides yourself.

thats my uncles fault he cheated on her. as for my cousins they could go to the same schools they are going to now as we are in the same township.
the older one is in high school so she could possibly go to the same school. the younger one still has a year and a half at her school. with my aunts bad financial record she will have to rent. not too many houses to rent plus they have a dog and a cat. so they will have to find a house to rent that allows animals in the same township. might be hard.as for the other family members they all love her. they will be able to keep in touch better this way.

 

[boyob13]

thats my uncles fault he cheated on her. as for my cousins they could go to the same schools they are going to now as we are in the same township.
the older one is in high school so she could possibly go to the same school. the younger one still has a year and a half at her school. with my aunts bad financial record she will have to rent. not too many houses to rent plus they have a dog and a cat. so they will have to find a house to rent that allows animals in the same township. might be hard.as for the other family members they all love her. they will be able to keep in touch better this way.

You're focusing way too much on the physical outcomes of this choice rather than the psychological outcomes of this. Just because everything will work out when it comes to everyday life doesn't mean that every other aspect will.

 

[shouldiask]

You're focusing way too much on the physical outcomes of this choice rather than the psychological outcomes of this. Just because everything will work out when it comes to everyday life doesn't mean that every other aspect will.

yes your correct. but i wont know unless i try

 

[Kat77]

It's been a while since the OP has posted. I guess he lost interest in his aunt and moved onto another relative.

im back you guys been busy i have around 60 posts to go through

Ooh...were you moving her in?