Okay, I feel like I need to come clean on here since we are basically dealing w/ money day in and day out on here w/ these cards and SUB and MSR, etc.
Somehow I fell off the wagon this summer. I'm "lucky" in that I have a nice chunk in savings right now (thanks to the divorce and my granny dying). For 21 years my ex did all our bills, and I lived cluelessly. I took over my portion of bills before he left, so I've been budgeting for awhile. I was doing great, but this fall it's hit me. And now I've had to dip into my savings to the tune of $2500.
I know some factors like my 4 trips this summer hurt my budget and Chicago last month. I have been on a bit of a wine buying bender too. I've also been buying clothes (for dates, and just because I don't have much to wear even day to day). My daughter's homecoming was a few hundred. Then things like I get less per paycheck this year (as we have a 27 pay schedule vs 26). So despite my (small) raise, I am getting less. And then things like my cable went up $20. We added a phone for my 10yo, that's another $20. My mortgage is now up almost $100/mo (between last year's increase and this year) because of the dang escrow balance they "require" (I'm going to call on that afterschool and see if I can just start pulling the amount I need myself, because at least I'd be getting interest). And I did increase my car payment $90/mo this past spring. I have like $500 tied up w/ the state of Michigan on "back taxes" they say I owe, I don't and I've submitted the paperwork 100 times to prove it. It's kinda, when it rains it pours.
It just scares me as I am REALLY hoping to buy a place in NC (rental property) in the new year, so most of my savings will be drained in doing that. But I've ran the numbers, and I SHOULD be able to make a small profit while covering all the costs associated with it. I'm sitting on so many things I need to sell around the house. And I've been slacking on looking into doing other things to add money to my budget (one being the "teach english online"). I really need to get off my butt and get cracking on things and stop spending as well! Christmas is coming, and it's sad to say, but part of me was hoping I might score the $1000 bump from Delta again this year coming back from Vegas, but school isn't sending me to Vegas. My 14yo completely understands, and will understand a smaller Xmas if needed. But my 10yo still thinks Santa will grant him his heart's desire. The good news is, my mom goes over the top at Xmas and often plays Santa for them.
This all just sucks, because a year ago, I was anticipating getting married, my BF moving in and someone helping with expenses so this NEVER became my reality. Now I'm sitting here single, and moving money around like crazy to cover due dates. I'm doing bank bonuses for extra money, banking the interest on the VGCs while I can (as every dollar helps).
Sorry, just really bummed out this monday as I had to "borrow" $370 to cover one bill and my $350 in bday money is going to cover another (which I guess in reality is going to pay off clothes and wine and other stuff I bought for "me" so it's not like it's paying my gas bill, LOL). Adulting sucks! Especially with 2 kids, and doing this solo.....grrrrrrr! On the flip side, my ex is spending money like it grows on trees. I know his mortgage is less than mine, but his jeep is more, as are his utilities (we are both still being billed together, lol). So it makes me question if he got a raise and I need to try for more child support, LOL. Right now I only get $300/mo and that basically just covers the kids insurance which I pay. But I'm afraid to do that as we didn't use friend of the court to establish the amount. Our lawyer had a program that could estimate what I would get. In reality I'm only supposed to get $200/mo, but the ex bumped it up for me. I'm worried if I request an adjustment, I'd get less.
Okay, venting over....back to your regularly scheduled churning