Aliceacc
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I normally try to stay out of the fray, but I have to say that it isn't the tennis shod foot of a child in a stroller that gives you that bloodied ankle/foot..it's the stroller itself. Yes, I have had run-ins with strollers...one mother literally used her stroller as a battering ram. Okay, maybe that's a stretch, but that mom was rushing down Main St., yelling 'excuse me, excuse me..have to get through.'...well so do the rest of us!! We all have someplace to be. And to bang into people is just rude!!! And that's what she did to me....clipped me from behind, bloodied my shin where the stroller grazed it as she rushed past me...only to come to a complete stop about 10' away. We were headed towards the Castle, so it wasn't an emergency exit type thing!!!
I've had kids being allowed to run around, pushing their siblings in strollers. Actually witnessed one group of kids having a race with the three strollers...over in front of Le Cellier headed towards the Rose Garden area..that was just plain scary.
Are parents who use strollers (no matter what the age of the kids) all rude and 'entitled'? No, of course not. Not any more so than the ECV users. But, there will always be a few bad apples that color everyone's opinions.
It's up to each family to decide the best way to handle the stroller issue. Me? I don't care what you do, or how old your child is. Just don't try to shove past me with that stroller...I'm moving as fast as I can!!!
Absolutely. There's no excuse for rudeness and pushing. We should all realize that there are others in the park (or the supermarket or on the highway for that matter) who also have needs and priorities.
My point was that there are always people ready and willing to judge your actions, particularly when you have kids. Having once been children themselves, I think some assume they know better than you exactly what you should be doing.
And, in many cases, they're wrong. They get a small snapshot of your day and extrapolate from there.
And, yes, there are rude and inconsiderate parents and ECV users and singles and honeymooners and teenagers. But I think they're the exception, not the norm. Aside from someone with a real medical emergency, there's no need to push or rush, to tailgate or stop suddenly.
Likewise, there's no need to judge others for their actions, particularly when those actions have no impact on you. Pushing another person, with or without your stroller, is rude. Putting a child into a stroller is not.