I just wished to add something here... And take time to thank the OP for such a wonderful question, and all the DISers for such honest answers! Since I personally find LOTS of things in life to be "Magical" (ie: Snowfall...sunsets...positive medical tests...kisses from loved ones...dragonflies landing on my finger...cloud-filled skies...etc.), Disney represents memories which evoke/enhance my own personal sense of MAGIC. The "MAGIC" lives inside of me...in my heart & soul. I BRING the magic with me...everywhere I travel, ESPECIALLY WDW. I can not tell you how many times I have become FILLED with the
MAGIC of DISNEY, at the mere sight of the following:
*A MICKEY MOUSE watch on the wrist of an executive (*CEO) in an elevator in NYC.
*A TIGGER Back-pack on a College Student crossing the campus at Stanford University.
*An infant on a crowded train in a City...lovingly wrapped in a POOH Blanket.
*Children ringing my doorbell on Oct. 31 each year, MAGICALLY transformed into "CINDERELLA, BUZZ LIGHTYEAR and DONALD DUCK" looking for a TREAT!
*A slightly soiled yet obviously treasured MICKEY MOUSE T-shirt on a young child in a CNN news brief, another image from IRAQ.
*The sight of my husband on the evening news...wearing his meticulously tailored suit & a WALT DISNEY WORLD Tie! (LOL).
There are so many more of these...too many to list.
This summer, while we are here visiting and enjoying all things Disney, Once again...I've witnessed the faces reflecting confusion/disappointment. The "hard-to-please, non-believers" of the summer vacation crowd. I've dined at the same table (Teppanyaki in Japan) with four VERY unhappy/miserable human beings. I've noticed similar frustration and resentment discernable on some other guests I've encountered. I'm forever bewildered by these folks. They MUST come to WDW with unreasonably HIGH expectations, which Disney can NEVER meet. They EXPECT WDW to provide them with MAGIC and a sense of utopia-like happiness...which is not possible. They actually BELIEVE...money can buy all of this, and more.
As most of us know, happiness or Magic can not be acquired through payment, or the mere services/company of others. YOU, and YOU alone must possess the characteristics synonymous with these emotions. You...must first BE happy. Then, and only then...can such people/places/experiences "ENHANCE" your own personal sense of "happiness & Magic." Since everyone of us is different, and all the dynamics involved in creating each one of us is incredibly diverse...each one of us will have a different interpretation of these FEELINGS. Yet, we can not escape the face that each one of us is solely responsible for our OWN happiness and Magic.
What a terrible BURDEN to place on WDW or a loved one, to
expect such places/people to MAKE us happy...or PROVIDE us with Magic. It's all about choices...either you are HAPPY, or not. Very simply, it is inherent, intrinsic. Yes, there are definitely people whom travel to WDW, fully expecting the MAGIC to instantaneously FILL their hearts and lives...making everything whole/wonderful! These people leave unfulfulled, and disappointed & disatisfied. They begrudge and blame Disney for failing to live up to the IMAGE/EXPECTATIONS set in advance (in stone).
The majority of us...as is evident by these posts...truly GET IT. We know the joy and wonderment Disney always delivers BEGINS within ourselves. We have MEMORIES...from which to recall past moments shared. We have DREAMS...which flow from Black and white, to FULL COLOR when the MAGIC hits. We all have HOPES and DESIRES...each new visit, journey and adventure will lead us to the same place: MAGIC.
WE...are NEVER DISAPPOINTED.
May all of you continue to nurture the child within, and protect the priceless MAGIC within your life.
TTFN...DF99
