Hi guys,
Just something I was starting to get worried about and I thought it would be safe to ask here.....
I am so happy to marry the love of my life. This will be his second marriage & my first. I'm ok with this, (the past is the past & it was well before I even met him), but I never told my parents and some of my friends that this is a second marriage for him. I'm not sure why I've kept it a secret-if I'm embarrassed that I'm not the first for him or if I'm afraid he will feel strange or what. I guess I just don't feel like it's anyone else's business. He was only married for a very short time (jumped into things too young & it lasted less than a year).
His family and friends obviously know the truth, most of my close friends who will be there know, but I just don't want to tell my parents. They are so judgmental anyways and it's already been stressful with our difference in religions and stuff. I really don't want to open a can of worms if I don't have to...
My question is-does this information have to be brought up or addressed at any point in our process? With the marriage certificate, officiant etc...? He's been divorced for a long time-paperwork signed & finalized for a while now.
Thank you everyone!
Just something I was starting to get worried about and I thought it would be safe to ask here.....
I am so happy to marry the love of my life. This will be his second marriage & my first. I'm ok with this, (the past is the past & it was well before I even met him), but I never told my parents and some of my friends that this is a second marriage for him. I'm not sure why I've kept it a secret-if I'm embarrassed that I'm not the first for him or if I'm afraid he will feel strange or what. I guess I just don't feel like it's anyone else's business. He was only married for a very short time (jumped into things too young & it lasted less than a year).
His family and friends obviously know the truth, most of my close friends who will be there know, but I just don't want to tell my parents. They are so judgmental anyways and it's already been stressful with our difference in religions and stuff. I really don't want to open a can of worms if I don't have to...
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My question is-does this information have to be brought up or addressed at any point in our process? With the marriage certificate, officiant etc...? He's been divorced for a long time-paperwork signed & finalized for a while now.
Thank you everyone!