
Molly, I'm sending all the baby dust I can your way. I've had a long drawn out history including clomid in 2005, then losing 2 babies in 2007, to finally figuring out the program, and surviving two high risk pregnancies. I know how hard it can be to think you'll never have your dream com true. I wish nothing but the best for you.
I also understand how unsympathetic people can be. After I lost my second child, my SIL told me "if you get pregnant again, I don't want to know until you are in labor." It really hurt my feelings, I think it was her backwards way of telling me that she was emotionally hurt by my loss, but it still cuts me to the core when I think of it today. I need to let it go also, but it's sooo hard. When I got pregnant with Nathan, we didn't tell anyone until we had to, and even then I waited until people asked.
Now, after having 2 babies a year apart, people act like I'm the biggest you know what on earth. Everytime I say I have a headache, or just don't feel well at work, people start in on me...."you're not pregnant again are you?" So what if I am???
The morale of this story is, your damned if you have them and your damned if you don't. Some people can find ways to be rude without even trying!