this is an example of the reason "when threads go bad"

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the use of exaggeration and superaltives. unless you have Skype and
sawthe poster
stamping their feet, or there is a "new" "stamping your feet" smilie, this is uncalled for. If someone chooses to post something they didn't like about disney, they are doing so to either "vent" or warn others, so they can plan accordingly.
I would NEVER use the words "Big, BAD" in the same sentance wiht "Disney" my grown kids, other family, friends, etc. would laugh uproariously about this. they all say Disney should pay ME for advertising. I tell everyone to go to Disney.. and you have to stay ONSITE! if I even HEAR about some even considering going, I write up pages of advice for them I LOVE Disney! we are lucky enough to go twice a year, and will do so as long as we can afford it.
that being said, I have, more recently, seen things and encountered things and had problems I am not happy with. so I come here, to share, and discuss with like minded people.
now, if you feel the need to disagree with a posters
opinion of things gone downhill, or have specific reasons, ie, explanations for that person about why such and such occurred, great. do so NICELY.
no need to
psychoanalyze the persons "negativity", "too high expectations", or say something constructive like "I need to go get some cheese to go with that whine"
BTW, I really dislike the word "complain" it does make someone sound "whiny"
as a waitress, if a customer tells me her steak is over cooked, I do NOT consider her a "complainer". I consider her a valued customer, whose steak was not done to her liking. if I order a stek MR and it comes out well done, I send it back. if it comes back a second time MW, I no longer have the time to deal with this.(this happened to me recently, not at my restaurant

) but I WILL share this with other people. "the steaks used to be so good at "such and such" restaurant.. what happened? " and "I am so disappointed" and maybe other diners (if they had a website) would agree.
but it's not :complaining". it's making an
observaton. now, there;s a better word.
I will continue to go to Disney, the place I love. (so don't even BOTHER telling me "well, if you don't like it, don't go there") but I will also continue to come on DISCUSSION boards to discuss things I find have not gone well. yes every trip is dif, and things go wrong. no, it doesn't "RUIN" a vacation"(ususally). but doesn't mean you can't come to a disney discussion board and talk about the things you were disapointed with. the things you DID expect, after years of expereince, that have changed, not for the good, and yet prices have gone up.
this is my
opinion, from my
experiences.anyone can disagree with me, . but I am NOT a complainer, not a whiner, not "negative".
you can disagree with a poster's opinon, not their experience. and if yu disagree, you can NICELY post why without the needless arm chair psychoanalysis and name calling