So I figured I'd comment since a lot of assumptions are being made based on I'm not sure what because some of these comments aren't remotely mentioned on my post. I wrote this both to vent as we all have come to do on these boards and in the hopes that I would also get some great information and tips...also the point of these boards.
As you can see in my signature I have been to Disney numerous times but as you can read on my original post had never ordered a cake. The 7yr old is also not my daughter to clarify. I am 25 and she is my friend's daughter. They do not have a lot of money so I chose to do this for them.
I have been to CM numerous times as well as most of the restaurants in Disney and if I expected 5 star service as well as meat cooked to order I know to go to the numerous restaurants known for this such as California Grill where we celebrated a birthday this past January. I just simply stated that the meat was more cooked than I've normally seen even at buffets and I'm sure it's probably because it was the end of the day. This by no means was a big deal it just added to all the little things at this point. I also wasn't aware that they schedule big parties at certain times and it makes sense so now I know. I usually don't travel with a group this big. We were all there for a car show and we are a club who has gone in the past to Disney when we come up for the show. The difference this time was that one of the members who is a cast member but works for one of the stores usually takes care of everything but she slacked this time and I had to pick up the slack or we would all be left with nowhere to eat.
I never once threw a tantrum, raised my voice or made any sort of demand whatsoever at CM to the manager or staff. As a matter of fact almost our entire party had no idea what was going on. I clearly stated I did not expect the manager to make any exception or violate any code for me...I am not that kind of person. The second he mentioned that he couldn't take it into the kitchen for health code reasons that was the end of that. I never insisted he take it back there nor was I in shock. I would think as a manager he knows the rules and so I do not second guess that for one minute. To clarify he also never suggested having it on the table as a center piece and after reading this thread I actually think that is a great idea and wish I would have thought of that. By no means would I have had a problem with that. His only suggestion was to have the BOX on the table and the reason I had a problem with that is that when it came time to surprise the birthday girl we would have had to remove the top part of the box which now reveals the very top of the crown then start trying to unhinge the box flaps and by this point instead of seeing the cake as a whole she has seen bits and pieces of it.
The only thing that upset me about the manager was that he didn't seem to try and come up with a solution. For those who stated that he did or that he didn't have to make phone calls because he knew the rules then how come he didn't know it could be stored elsewhere on property. And the table wasn't a solution he said it was our only option. I was more than gracious to the cast members downstairs who helped me out and I told them thank you because I appreciated any LITTLE help they could offer.
As far as what I expected I really don't feel I expected much or had high expectations. My expectations were also not what some are assuming here. I thought the server would bring out the cake as they did with the dessert place it on the table say happy birthday and either walk away or call other servers or the characters. I really don't know how it works at disney but at other restaurants that's usually how it goes and I've certainly seen disney sing happy birthday to guests quite a few times. Apart from that our server was really just not pleasant and even gave a nasty face to one of our group members when he pointed her in my direction when it came to the birthday stuff because I had made all the arrangements.
In the midst of all the chaos I have to say I completely forgot a lighter and I'm sure someone in our group must have had one and that was going to be my next option. The only reason why I asked a server is because our server had already come out and lit the candles they provided on the cupcakes so I knew they had the means to light my candle. I did think to bring my own candle because I know sometimes bakeries do not have any and I was picking up the cake from the bakery. I did not expect the restaurant to stop and I didn't expect some out of this world service although we are in disney and go there because of that extra magic we don't usually find anywhere else. That is why we pay the prices we pay. I didn't get up to grab 20 plates because I thought it would look a bit weird and I did not expect our server to take our cake to the back where I already knew it wasn't allowed and cut it and serve it up as if I was in a wedding. I just needed the plates and if they had some kind of knife to cut the cake as it was a bit big for the regular knife. If she would have said "Oh I'm sorry we don't have any special knives" I certainly wouldn't have bit her head off or gotten upset...I would have figured it out just as we did the day we were checking out and my friend wanted me to take a piece home. We didn't have a knife and so I got a pair of scissors I had, washed them real good and used that as my make shift knife...ghetto I know but you make do and I'm not above that.
I am very thankful for the support I have received from some of you and I really do hope I have given a little extra knowledge to some who may not have known about this as I didn't. I have also learned some things I did not know such as asking to speak to group dining which I didn't know existed and contacting all involved to make sure this doesn't repeat. I am usually very well prepared thanks to the boards but I promise you that after reading threat after thread I didn't see anything in reference to my mishap. I also can't seem to understand some of your point of views as to the shock that I didn't know what could or couldn't be done. Seeing as I am a DIS member and did not know this all I can think of is the numerous amount of people that are not DIS members and know even less than I do. I certainly can't believe that this incident was the first of its kind at CM and I'm sure that the incidents have probably been even worse because some people might bring their own cake from outside not even knowing that Disney has special cakes. I've also seen my share of outbursts and people who have the audacity to think that the world revolves around them and that they are not at fault and I did nothing of that sort. I certainly hope I didn't give off the impression that I acted in this way because I didn't. I also never passed the blame of this incident onto the manager. I take full responsibility for not knowing some of these rules. The only issue I had with the manager was getting the sense that he didn't try his best to find a solution that would work for all involved and that is all. I also did not know they could deliver and when quoted $165 for the cake I was told it was for the cake not for any delivery. I have no problem paying for delivery or storage and am well aware of fees such as corkage fee if you bring your own bottle of wine. I do not try to cut corners I just couldn't bring myself to pay this much for that cake especially when I saw prices from last year that would have put it right around $105. I was also very hesitant to pay a lot as it is because of all the mishaps I've seen with cake orders and some reviews of how not extraordinary the cakes taste. This experience has not stopped me from planning on ordering another cake on our next visit...I'm already planning the design of the cake. I will also be asking for our same baker because she was extraordinary and if the cake can't be delivered to the restaurant of our choice I'll just simply enjoy it in my room.
Thank you and if you have any questions about specific numbers I called for the cake or how I went about ordering it and what I asked for please feel free to contact me as I would love to be able to HELP a fellow DISer.
