I'm dealing with it in a big way at the moment. I had my youngest dd after my second marriage. When I had her, my ds was 18 and a sophomore in college, and other dd was a senior in high school. So when they left home, it was no big deal...I had Kate at home. Well, now she is going to be a senior in college. I put her on a plane for 3 months study abroad in London this Thursday. I'm going over to visit her in Nov but we're so used to seeing her every few weeks at college in some show or such, that it's going to be really hard this fall!
She's been working at a Six Flags all summer and living with her boyfriend's family since they live just 25 mins away, vs our 90 mins away!! So, she hasn't been her much this summer either. This time next year, we'll hopefully be packing her up for Florida and the Disney College Program. Then, she's pretty much gone...since that's where she wants to work for the foreseeable future.
It's soooo hard to wrap my head around the fact that she's an adult now, and needs to live her own life. In other words....Mom butt out!!!
So, good luck to all you other parents out there going through this.....I'm hoping it gets better. At least I've been gradually used to it over the summer.