luvsJack
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Apr 3, 2007
15 years ago this would have made a lot more sense. These days pretty much everyone has a cell phone on them with the flashlight option. There's also keychain flashlights.
In all honesty though there's not been too many situations where a headlight would have actually made it easier to get in or find my keys because of how the light hits objects, the angle of the light, the distance of the car, etc. The headlight is not in line with my front door (and if I'm standing there I'm blocking any light), the car is too far away and would be facing my garage anyways (my garage door has a lighted key pad) and it won't help me dig into my purse to find the keys that somehow always end up at the bottom lol.
But that's in the situations I can really think of not saying it can never ever help.
ETA: Actually I can think back closer to 17+ years ago when my mom didn't have an automatic garage door and instead you had to get out and use the handle to lift. Now that would be a case where headlights would actually help.
The last time I dropped ODS off at his house after dark, I had picked him up at the airport coming in from work. He had his hands full with his bags, couldn’t really hold his phone to see by. They have a long sidewalk from the driveway to their door. The outside light is dim and doesn’t light up the sidewalk. The headlights from where I was sitting lit up the sidewalk.
YDS, same thing. We are usually coming from a wrestling show and he has his bags. No hands to hold a phone. Or if Dd and I have been shopping, she has bags of things she bought.
YDS tends to forget to turn on the porch light before he leaves and around dd’s house is pretty dark except for the porch light.
But none of that really matters. It doesn’t have to make sense to anyone but us. It’s what we all do. I wait for them and they wait for me. Day or night, it’s just what we do. Like I said, it’s just one of the ways we show each other we care. Not saying others don’t care if they don’t do it, it’s just something we do.