LuvsDragonflies
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Some of these moves look familiar.
Really? The young girls writhing to the beat on Dance Mom's isn't pedo fodder? Keep thinking that if it makes you feel better.
ALso, in your lovely photo with the fat mom, she's flanked by two nice looking mom's on either side, so pagent kid = dumpy mom is a fail.
Feel free to dump on Dance Moms all you want but please don't make the mistake of thinking it is representive of the dance competition world as a whole. It's not.
Full disclosure. I think child beauty pageants (and adult ones for that matter) are rather lame. I don't care to watch and I really wouldn't introduce my child to them.
But if we're going to go down the road of saying child beauty pageants where kids are playing dress up are potentially injurious to the child well then that indeed opens the door to many organized sports and activities for kids. Gymnastics, an activity she pointed out, is an activity that is also done in skimpy costumes. At the Olympics, they had em cut so high on the side, the poor girls were constantly pulling them down. And that isn't done for athletic reasons. And then we have to take into account the enormous physical risk to the child gymnastics carries with it. How big a leap is it then to to say gymnastics is also potentially injurious to the child and as such is against the child's best interest? And once that very small step is made, the door is wide open for any parent to question the other on the basis of letting the kid play certain sports or entering beauty pageants or other organized activities.
I beg to differ. It is a form of child abuse. Having shows like JOn and Kate that too was child abuse. LEAVE your kids out of your need for greed and fame.![]()
Really? The young girls writhing to the beat on Dance Mom's isn't pedo fodder? Keep thinking that if it makes you feel better.
ALso, in your lovely photo with the fat mom, she's flanked by two nice looking mom's on either side, so pagent kid = dumpy mom is a fail.
But why shouldn't one parent be able to question the other? Isn't this really what this is all about..... a non-custodial parent's right to have a say in what their children do? If the parents were living under the same roof then both parents would usually have to agree on what kinds of activities the children would get involved with. So why, when there is divorce, should the non-custodial parent have no say?
Personally I'm thinking there is probably a lot of information we are not privy to. Parading her child around in that Dolly Parton outfit for all the world to see is not likely to have been the only example of questionable judgement on that mother's part.
I would think a pedophile would want a little girl to look like....oh, a little girl. They would be more apt to hang out at playgrounds or somewhere like Walt Disney World.
Don't get me wrong, I think pageants are disgusting (kiddy to adult), but I certainly don't equate it with child abuse.
Feel free to dump on Dance Moms all you want but please don't make the mistake of thinking it is representive of the dance competition world as a whole. It's not.
I think the costume is fine but the padding is what is questionable. It;s sad theses days to look for a Halloween costume. EVERYTHING is sexy this, sexy that http://www.buycostumes.com/browse/Female/Kids-Costumes/_/N-jZ3l/results1.aspx
why does a teen need to be sexy? Just on the front page alone, the word "sexy" is used 4 times.
Really? My DD was in competitive dance in Minnesota for 4+ years, and I must say, while Dance Moms shows a bit more craziness than I saw, the types of dances they do is quite similar to those I witnessed. I got pretty tired of the way too sexy costumes and the booty shaking, and DD and I switched to another program....this geared more toward musical theater. She still does tap, jazz and ballet, BUT no skimpy costumes and absolutely no booty shaking. It is entirely possible to be in the dance world without being age inappropriate....and most competitive dance is, frankly, age inappropriate.
I think you are kidding yourself if you think competitive dance is all that far removed from pageants.
This discussion isn't about Dance Mom's..it's about this particular mother who dressed her child up in this manner and the child's father is taking the mother to court over it. If a Dance Mom's father was pissed about suggestive moves or revealing clothing then by all means he should take similar action.
You are basing your assumptions about all pageant Mom's off ONE photo? While I do agree it is not 100% dumpy unattractive mothers there is a certain percentage who are and you are a bit quick to dismiss based on 1 image.
If you haven't seen the tart moves, you've missed most of Dance Mom's. Their outfits alone are ridiculous. News flash, the dancing girls aren't selling Girl Scout cookies either.
There is no difference between them. They are all using the kids to sell sex. The routines of the Dance Mom kids are pretty much all sexual.
You want to pull one of these kid based reality shows apart, you need to hold the standard for all of them. For you to even try to say the Dance Mom kids aren't selling sex is ridiculous. They do it every week.
Hey you get no argument from me Luv, I don't watch dance moms but I would totally object if that's what going on.
The issue is that this case is about tiara's and toddlers and an argument can be made that at least the girls on dance moms are learning to dance. What are the toddlers learning?
Sorry putting fake breast and a fake deirre on a 6 year old is to do one thing, sexualize them. The more I use my beauty and body, the more praise I get? nice lesson.
Luckily when my niece was in dance school the focused on developing her talent NOT on dressing her up to play a movie hooker.
I'd have my ex in court justl like this dad. If my kid cannot be in a pagent without undulating, gyrating and looking "sexy" then i'll find some other avenue for them to compete in.
I don't understand the bolded - by allowing the four-year-old to add padding, etc.?
I really don't think the kid went out and procured any of that mess herself, that was all her mother's doing.
Go dad. This is what the mother is doing with his child? I'd be in court too.
The child was actually 4 at the time of the padded bust/behind incident.
Exactly, I saw this episode of T&T it was disturbing. But, I also agree with the mom. If this case is won by the father, what happens if any dad didn't want their daughters doing something. YOu mentioned Cheerleading, my DD does All Star cheer, what if we were divorced and her dad didn't want her to, what happens then. Gymnastics like the mom mentioned, very skimpy outfits, legs open, ( I find it disturbing how anyone could sexualize that, but people are crazy) some dad out there would object to it also. I think the blame needs to be on the pageant directors. They need to set rules. The ASASF has done this for all star cheer because in their opinion things were getting out of hand, Maybe pageants should follow their lead and do something about it.