Divorce.

Ya know I guess it depends on how the parents handle it. And you can and can't really say that divorce is horrible. Would you rather have two ppl 2gther torturing each other and the ppl around them or would u rather have them apart and happy. But you can say it because it is sad unforunately. I agree divorce is horrible and it IS all I will remember. But it depends on how the parents handle it. There are some ways ppl handle it that makes their kids even more angry at them. Others handle it in other ways. i don't really know how i feel at my parents. I just don't really know.
 
My parents have been divorced since i was three. My dad has been married three more times since then.I have had three step-sisters and two step- brothers. My conclusion... divorce sucks!
 
I think it is better for parents to get divorced then to stay together when they really don't love each other any more. But one thing that I think is really REALLY bad:

When a divorced person who already has a kid (especially if the kid is an only child normally) has another baby with there new spouse. Bad bad bad, imo.
 

my parents have been divorced since i was i think 5. neither has remarried and neither has had anymore kids. my dad has dated alot and has been going out with a wonderful women for 2 1/2 years now, and that doesnt bother me, but when my mom dates, that really bugs me. i think i have a problem with trusting men with my mom.
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My parents have been divorced since i was really little. I really don't mind it and I think it was a lot better. I think that if it would be better for the child then they should have a divorce but if it isn't, then they should stay together for the child.
 
It bothers me when people say that couples should stay together for their child. Parents aren't just parents. They're people too. They deserve to be happy. The most unhappy couples I know are unhappy because they stayed together for their child, who isn't that happy anyway becuase they're parents hate each other.

If you stop loving each other, can not work out problems, ect, get a divorce.
 
My parents divorced when I was about 3. Now I have a step-dad and I live with him and my mom and half-brother. If the people are not happy I would say get a divorce. my mom and dad don't talk to each other anymore, but I go to see him 1 a month.
 
I agree with Shelby. Why stay together for your child? Besides if you do you really are just making it worse. Instead of being able to have EVERYONE happy you want to make EVERYBODY miserable?
 
some people want their parents to get divorced, and some parents should, but my parents were happy unti lmy dad left. They didn't get a divorce right away, they did after my dad just packed and left. The only reason he left was because he didn't want to play house anymore he didn't like haveing recponsibilities. He liked having no strings, but yet now he's married and has another kid. I love my stepbrother we get along great, i wish i could see himmlore but my dad only see's me every other weekend. They don't even relize how this effects me there to busy either bad mouthing each other to my face or planning when i can see me dad again. They can be nice to each other once in a while but not really. If i askmy dad to come to something i'm performing in or graduating he never shows up no matter how important it is to me he doesn't care. Not all parents are like that but for the kidswho have parents who are like that and have said something about it to them. Like tell them how you feel about it you are muchmore brave than me. I can't tellmy dad how i feel because i think that if he doesn't like what i have to say then he will leave again. And because he did once it is easy for him to runaway again. If people are wondering why i am sharing this to everyone i'm venting just a little, when i start talk ing about something likethis i just keep going and i'm tring to stop. i'm wondering if anybody is going through this too?
 
I have no idea why people get divorced. I agree that they probably do it because they married for the wrong reasons. My dad was divorced from his ex-wife before he met my mom and had me, yet because he split from her, my two half-siblings resent me. My sister much less so than my brother, but you can still tell that she doesn't really like having me around. My brother has broken off communication with my dad. My brother-in-law loves me more than both of them and that hurts. My boyfriend's parents are divorced. His dad's a complete *** and wouldn't admit to being my bf's dad until he was 5 and looked like a mirror image of him. I don't like seeing people hurt by divorce. It hurts me.
 
some people want their parents to get divorced, and some parents should, but my parents were happy unti lmy dad left. They didn't get a divorce right away, they did after my dad just packed and left. The only reason he left was because he didn't want to play house anymore he didn't like haveing recponsibilities. He liked having no strings, but yet now he's married and has another kid. I love my stepbrother we get along great, i wish i could see himmlore but my dad only see's me every other weekend. They don't even relize how this effects me there to busy either bad mouthing each other to my face or planning when i can see me dad again. They can be nice to each other once in a while but not really. If i askmy dad to come to something i'm performing in or graduating he never shows up no matter how important it is to me he doesn't care. Not all parents are like that but for the kidswho have parents who are like that and have said something about it to them. Like tell them how you feel about it you are muchmore brave than me. I can't tellmy dad how i feel because i think that if he doesn't like what i have to say then he will leave again. And because he did once it is easy for him to runaway again. If people are wondering why i am sharing this to everyone i'm venting just a little, when i start talk ing about something likethis i just keep going and i'm tring to stop. i'm wondering if anybody is going through this too?

I'm somewhat going through this also. My dad barely even comes to anything that I do anymore and I guess now in a way I don't even seem to care anymore. Idk. I guess it's kinda hard to explain why. But I do know how it is.

And Shelby I do see your point and you are right but sometimes I think it would be best but not neccesrily for the parents. If they can work out the problem then they should stay but if they can't and they will be unhappy then they should. I guess it would just depend on what the situation is. The parents still should be happy though.
 
no offence but i think divorce sucks

my parents are devorced and i do not

see my dad because he called my step-dad

a asswhipe so it sucks
 
My parents are not divorced, but my aunt and uncle are. I think people get divorced becuase they don't love eachother anymore. Or they were married for the wrong reasons.
 
My parents never divorced..my mother had cancer, and got rid of it ten years ago, but the radiation treatment wore her out, and she died a few months ago. For the last two years or so, my mom couldn't really do anything, so my dad would always have to feed her, and take her to the bathroom and all. A few times he would get mad because of all the stress and say he was leaving..he never did though.

I think that if the parents aren't happy they should..but if my dad had left my mom at that time, she would be pretty helpless.
 


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