DisLiss
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Honestly, I think it has every bit as much to do with people's expectations as with a lack of planning. Too many people expect perfection in order to feel happy. They are not happy with the little things. They are made miserable by any wait or inconvenience. And they have this idea in their head that Disney can magically insure that they won't have to deal with anything so bothersome as long lines or wait times to eat.
I think that even when people know that it will be crowded---very crowded, and they know that fastpasses and ADRs exist, they can still have a miserable experience if they think having those things will eliminate wait times, because they don't. Nor will it eliminate rain, heat, high priced items/experiences, other people behaving poorly, illness, etc. yet if they experience any of those things, they think it was a ruined trip and they wasted "all of that money" and therefore it's all Disney's fault.
Even when DH & I were there in 2000 and 2002, right before free dining came into existence, when you could still just decide in the morning where you wanted to eat and easily make a reservation, and even wait for a table with no reservation if you wanted to, we still heard so many people complaining that they made a reservation and yet they couldn't immediately be seated a table. We always go in September (but not labor Day weekend), so it's typically a quieter time, and yet people would be griping about wait times.
Some people will never be happy, and when you pair that up with them spending a bigger chunk of change on vacation than they might typically, it's a recipe for complaints, whether they planned the trip or not.
I also think that on the flip side, some people convince themselves that they can go during the busiest times of years and their planning will somehow change that. It will help, don't get me wrong, but peak & holiday times are still peak and holiday times.
Plus, we unfortunately live in an age where moaning and groaning about everything that doesn't go perfectly in your life is the thing to do...especially on the internet.
I think that even when people know that it will be crowded---very crowded, and they know that fastpasses and ADRs exist, they can still have a miserable experience if they think having those things will eliminate wait times, because they don't. Nor will it eliminate rain, heat, high priced items/experiences, other people behaving poorly, illness, etc. yet if they experience any of those things, they think it was a ruined trip and they wasted "all of that money" and therefore it's all Disney's fault.
Even when DH & I were there in 2000 and 2002, right before free dining came into existence, when you could still just decide in the morning where you wanted to eat and easily make a reservation, and even wait for a table with no reservation if you wanted to, we still heard so many people complaining that they made a reservation and yet they couldn't immediately be seated a table. We always go in September (but not labor Day weekend), so it's typically a quieter time, and yet people would be griping about wait times.
Some people will never be happy, and when you pair that up with them spending a bigger chunk of change on vacation than they might typically, it's a recipe for complaints, whether they planned the trip or not.
I also think that on the flip side, some people convince themselves that they can go during the busiest times of years and their planning will somehow change that. It will help, don't get me wrong, but peak & holiday times are still peak and holiday times.

Plus, we unfortunately live in an age where moaning and groaning about everything that doesn't go perfectly in your life is the thing to do...especially on the internet.