Okay, I'm kind of sorry I brought up the whole gestational diabetes test. I didn't know how many people felt so passionately about their birthing plans and didn't mean to cause a controversy! Sorry!
It's not the worst thing in the world (think orange soda that they forgot to put the water and carbonation in - just syrup) but not my favorite. It is better cold. My only problem is that it is a lot of sugar on an empty stomach and on a good day that causes me to be a little sick to my stomach.
Any pain/trials/tribulations that you go through during pregnancy, childbirth and adoption are worth it! The beautiful children that you get to take home with you are your payoff and they payoff big time! I hope nobody (Miss Cammie) was scared off by any of my comments. I knew what I was getting into when I got pregnant and then proceeded to do it two more times!
On a side note about doctors. My best friend (and has been since we were 7, so for 27 years) is an Ob/Gyn. Unfortunately I don't live anywhere near her so she isn't my doctor, but if anyone in the Bloomington/Normal area of Illinois needs a doctor let me know! She pays incredibly high malpractice insurance rates (due to know fault of her own - they were high when she went into practice directly out of med school) and does encourage some testing but doesn't really help out those rates. Some hospitals require that patients do the testing. I always ask her if I have any questions about what my own doctor recommends but I would never let any doctor I wasn't completely comfortable with touch me if I was having second thoughts. I truly believe that most doctors have their patients best interests at heart and that a majority of the doctors out there are fantastic but there are some out there that I wouldn't let touch a pet rat (if I had one that is!). Any testing that I have done during my pregnancy is for the health of my future baby and for myself. I figured the quad test (that is an optional one) is a good screening test for a multitude of different diseases. Even if you wouldn't terminate a pregnancy after a disease was confirmed (by more invasive tests),and I personally woudn't, I figure that there are life saving measures that doctors will need to take to help a newborn that has certain conditions. Forewarned is forarmed in my opinion. As far as how I pick the doctor, I want to have a doctor in the hospital of my choice so I pick my hospital first. I want the highest level of NICU available in case something were to go wrong. When I determined that (after I moved to TX I was pregnant at the time) I called the Labor and Delivery department and begged a nurse to help me choose a doctor (the nurses know who is good and who's not). They ultimately sometimes can't give you a name but I got a practice and four doctors to choose from after talking with the L&D nurse. Also, I always get an epidural. I cannot imagine having a baby without one

! I was induced both times and will probably be induced again with this one (I was late with my oldest by a week and she ended up being 9 lb 1 oz and b/c she was so big they induced me again early so I wouldn't have such a big baby). I don't know if having pitocin makes that big of a difference in pain (some say it does) but I was in a significant amount of pain and the epidural took it all away! I personally wouldn't allow a dentist to do major work on my teeth without some kind of pain relief and I'm certainly not going to squeeze a 9 pound baby out without some either! Better living through pharmaceuticals in my opinion! But ultimately, however you choose to give birth (and there are so many choices) you still get that fantastic baby at the end! And a healthy baby is all that matters!
Oh, and I don't let strangers touch my belly either! I think that is very weird. And after the baby is born I don't let strangers touch them either! I don't know where their hands have been!