declansdad
DIS Dad #639 New Brunswick, Canada
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Happy Sunday Guys, hope you all had a good one. We had 7 hours of driving to watch DS and his volleyball team go 1 and 2 in a tournament today. Good times.
Happy Thanksgiving guys!
Happy Sunday Guys, hope you all had a good one. We had 7 hours of driving to watch DS and his volleyball team go 1 and 2 in a tournament today. Good times.
You'll miss that when he's older.
No you won't.
The Menu:
Turkey (mine is real, hers is fake)
Mashed Potatoes
Portabello Mushroom Risotto for Stuffing
Steamed Broccoli with Parmesan
Roasted Spaghetti Squash with Truffle Oil (for her not me)
Rolls
Home Made Pumpkin Pie (if your home is Publix)
Chianti Classico as the beverage
I am waiting for the Phins game to start so I can watch them lose again.
You'll miss that when he's older.
No you won't.
Despite the grumblings and long weekends traveling for sports, now that those days are over I do miss them. Enjoy the times.First JV high school basketball game today for DS. Played as the 6th man today for the most part, chipped in with 6 points, more than a few rebounds and blocks. Pretty good start for him and the team with a 31 point win.
Tomorrow we will have a 3.5 hour drive to a volleyball tournament that probably won't go as well.
Good luck with that one. Mine often needed to do school work on the Sunday drive back home or was icing the knee and couldn't drive.LOL, when he's older he can drive and I will be the one sleeping in the back seat.
Good to hear getting back to normal'Morning all...
Hope all are well and better if possible.
Things are slowly getting back to something resembling normal for me so I suspect that it's about time I started trying to get caught up around here.
Despite the grumblings and long weekends traveling for sports, now that those days are over I do miss them. Enjoy the times.
Good luck with that one. Mine often needed to do school work on the Sunday drive back home or was icing the knee and couldn't drive.
Good to hear getting back to normal![]()
Thanks guys…
I really appreciate the concerns and offerings. Like I said, y’all are good folk.
I really didn’t want to come off as just being whiny and figured that the real lesson was to remind myself and those I know that no matter what, it could be worse.
But then again, context is the real difference between information and understanding.
So at the risk of being whiny, here’s the story (and don’t feel like you actually have to read this)…
I took a bit of a trip couple days ago. Total distance traveled: 5 feet; speed at impact: 32 feet per second/per second. Gravity is an unforgiving thing ya’ know. Anyway, I was out back to grab a few tools from the shed for a project when my feet came out from under me while descending the inclined walkway that accesses it (damn rain and wet leaves). Bang, just that fast; landed square on my back. Probably whacked my head as well but at the moment the only thing I was conscious of was that I couldn’t move. Nothing was working. Couldn’t feel the legs, arms flat where they landed, fingers curled up in a ball, nothing responding to my thoughts. That was about 30 seconds of true terror.
Then I noticed that I could lift and move my head but that was still about all at the moment. I tried to holler out to the house but DW was working at the other end with the radio on and wasn’t going to hear me. Time for drastic and foolish measures (because I’m stupid like that). I figured I needed to see what bits of meat I could get any control of. Tried for the toes first and they could wiggle (a very good sign that). Fingers?, still no go, but now I had a pins-n-needles sensation in both arms (and that wasn’t good, but beat the previous nothing). I refocused on the lower body and after a bit was able to get the legs to move a little at the hips and then to raise my arms to where I could see ‘em. Fingers still curled up in a useless ball but I could probably roll if had to and I figured that I probably had to.
Slowly I decided to roll to the left and let myself drop down off the slick ramp and onto the ground. Some more effort and I got to my knees and then I was able to get up on my elbows. Tried once more to get the fingers to do something, anything, bit still nope. I took the backside on one hand and pushed at the other hand’s fingers just to get them to move, then repeated the process the other way. That seemed to remind my brain that I still had them attached and I figured out how to at least get them to wiggle. Next step, use the edge of the inclined ramp again to try and get vertical. Wasn’t quite working through but I got halfway up and kind’a flopped my torso over onto the ramp and caught my breath for a moment or two. The legs could move but there was no strength for lifting at first so, focus when back to the arms. I was able to reach and somewhat grasp the tools that I’d dropped so I spent the next minute or two tiring to get control of the fingers. It took a few tries but I was starting to rework the process out in my head and got the tools tucked into one pocket. Next step: can you get up? Another long process of concentrating and using the ramp for leverage but I pulled that off finally.
How long was I down? I really don’t know. My sense of time was going to way off for the rest of the day but I suspect a decent estimate from the fall to getting back to my feet was maybe ten or fifteen minutes. Still very short on strength but I began to shuffle my way into the house. Obviously this now had DW scared. We figured that since I was up and about that an ambulance wasn’t necessary (and it would have taken me to facilities I’d rather not patronize anyway) so we got in the car and headed to the nearest urgent care center. By the time we got there I was able to walk relatively well but slowly and had worked out how to move everything again. They checked me out at the center but ultimately referred me to a full emergency room where a CT-scan could be done.
Another trip, more paperwork (and the time it took to refigure how to hold a pen and sign my name) and they did a scan on my lower back, shoulder/neck areas and head. The worst symptom at this point was the pins I was feeling in my hands and forearms (imagine getting dozens of tetanus shots in your finger tips and palms simultaneously and having the process repeat non-stop). Since I didn’t land on my arms of hurt them in any apparent physical way these Docs were concerned that what was happening was probably in my skull (as it was effecting both sides). When the images came back there was much good news and some puzzling news. First off, no swelling or bleeding in the brain; no ruptured or slipped disks and no discernible fractures in the vertebra. What they did find was that I have “Stenosis” of the spine. That is where the openings in the column that the nerves pass through are shrinking over time. It’s congenital and obviously not a result of the fall but is likely leading to some contact between the narrowed bones and the now stressed nerves headed out toward my arms. They also found that one of the ligaments in my back has calcified. Basically I’ve got an extra bone that most folk don’t have. Don’t know yet how that plays in but it may have helped strengthen that part of the spine and might have protected me somewhat form the fall. They released me from Emergency with steroids, a mussel relaxer, some decent pain meds and a referral to a back specialist.
Since then things are improving, but aren’t quite right. The needles sensation has left most of my fingers and has been replaced with a burning pain that is sensitive to touch and cold. That runs from both index fingers up to either elbow. Neck is sore and stiff but the lower back seems to be mending. I have an appointment this the spine doctor Friday but am restricted by the meds from being able to drive (which has ended a long planned trip this weekend… stupid, stupid stupid!) but it could still be far worse. At least I have been allowed to work from home this Closing week. Still have to be logged in and working by 6am, but I’m also still employed, so I’ve got that going for me.
Well, that's the story.
Like I said, The important part is just remembering to prize and respect all that we do have.
Cause in the blink of an eye it can all disappear.
'Morning all...
Hope all are well and better if possible.
Things are slowly getting back to something resembling normal for me so I suspect that it's about time I started trying to get caught up around here.
Happy 8th Anniversary to the DisDad's Club!
Also, my sincere gratitude on this Veteran's Day to all of you who have served.![]()
Ditto!Happy Birthday, Tim!
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Happy Sunday Guys, hope you all had a good one. We had 7 hours of driving to watch DS and his volleyball team go 1 and 2 in a tournament today. Good times.
Hope you enjoyed your meal with the princess!
Sounds like I should've been there...
LOL, when he's older he can drive and I will be the one sleeping in the back seat.
Good luck with that one. Mine often needed to do school work on the Sunday drive back home or was icing the knee and couldn't drive.
I see that once again, you have underestimated the Eagles' ability to out-awful their opponents.
Things are slowly getting back to something resembling normal for me so I suspect that it's about time I started trying to get caught up around here.
Needed to upgrade the structure of our Mickey Ears so used some wire frames to produce something sturdy and to fit in with the rest of the garland.
8 years? What? That's crazy talk. Many memories through the years here.
Happy Birthday, Tim!
There is plenty left if you want to come down.
Happy Sunday Guys, hope you all had a good one. We had 7 hours of driving to watch DS and his volleyball team go 1 and 2 in a tournament today. Good times.
You'll miss that when he's older.
No you won't.
I see that once again, you have underestimated the Eagles' ability to out-awful their opponents.
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'Morning all...
Hope all are well and better if possible.
Things are slowly getting back to something resembling normal for me so I suspect that it's about time I started trying to get caught up around here.
Needed to upgrade the structure of our Mickey Ears so used some wire frames to produce something sturdy and to fit in with the rest of the garland. I know Norm is gonna give me a hard time but just too nice out this weekend to not take advantage of getting a head start on this stuff. Nothing turned on yet and still a good amount of work to be done but we are ahead of the game now both inside and outside.
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Happy Birthday, Tim!
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Ditto!
Thought about driving up there to spike the ball in your yard but said forget it because I would have to drive over that damn bridge. There is no way the Phins should have won that game.
I did think of you when Landry caught the tipped pas for a TD. Hope your TV is OK.
Kirk Cousins looked like an amazing QB. Oh, wait, that's Washington.![]()
Wondered if any of ya would notice thatI like the Stella part of this decoration.![]()
Third or forth, or whatever number I am - Happy Birthday TimHappy Birthday, Tim!
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Don't know about you, but there are times when DD comes home that I am not sure I would rather she had stayed at school. Sounds like a plan on the decorations, especially that drink in the Keys. Gonna have to figure out how I could pull that one off.The Pirate Princess made it back in NJ in time for class. Can tell the dogs are already missing her. I keep telling them she will be back in a month.
Very cool. Care to decorate my house? I'll take you to the Keys and buy a couple of drinks.
Sorry about the poked and prodded part of your day and hope the Disney decorations put a smile on your face considering the other aspects of your day.Happy Monday. Went to dr and got poked, prodded, and phlobotosized. Should get the results back later this week. I'll let you know if I'm still alive.
No grief since it is Disney related. I'll let you get by with one week early.![]()
Seven hours? Wow, dedicated parent.
Happy Birthday, Tim!
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Glad to hear you are getting back to normal. Any closer to figuring out what happened?