Jennifer - That is so weird about the church! Hope today is better!

I wish your hopes worked! Today most areas are under Level 3 Snow emergencies. I have a family member who called to say that his 40K lb city snow plow was struggling to get through a flat part of town. We are supposed to drive through a VERY hilly part of town, so we're just playing it by ear right now. I wish the bride would just postpone the wedding, and yes I know what that's asking of her! Seriously though, I don't know that we're going to be able to make it.
I called the district police office for the area in which the wedding is being held. Currently, you are not allowed to drive and many of the roads are closed (especially the hilly ones we would have to travel). The Snow Emergency is supposed to be rescinded (or at least changed to a lesser severity) at noon, so I guess I'll call back then. If we're allowed driving, then we'll venture out... but if it's too bad, we'll just have to come home and cancel on her.
This is such a struggle for me, and I'm kind of in an odd place as far as coming to terms with how big a deal this is to the bride. I'm far enough to removed from my wedding to know that the music that played before, and even the unity candle song, just doesn't matter for the rest of your life. Heck -- I couldn't care less right now who stood next to us, who performed the ceremony, or whether or not I wore a beautiful dress or jeans. Clearly life happens, and is what it is going to be... whether or not you spent 20 months making 3 "wedding binders" of plans down to every detail, or eloped to the courthouse.
This coming from the girl who - and I would bet all the money I could spare on this - was the most OCD about planning her wedding that you could ever even swap stories about. I even made a list of songs the DJ could and could not play at the reception (I believe it was about 360 songs for him to choose from -- some of which he was mandated to play, and in a particular order), because it was ALL going to be up to me, and was going to go how I wanted it to.
That being said, I'm close enough to it still, to know that if today were my wedding day, I would be unaware of the above-mentioned truths, and would be beyond hysterical if people told me they weren't willing to drive to my wedding, regardless of the conditions.
I mostly just feel absolutely horrible for her and her family
