my3princes
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Ok, I need some post-baby-body advice from women who have been there
I pulled out my fall/winter stuff yesterday, which I wore before and then up until about halfway through my pregnancy. NOTHING fits! It's all the same sizes (or bigger) than I'm buying now, but you know how it goes.... nothing fits right, whether it's hanging off of me or "the right size".
The numbers on the scale say I'm significantly down from this time last year, before I got pregnant, and yet I just DON'T carry weight well anymore - probably because it's all flab, instead of mostly muscle
I know things absolutely never go back to "normal" (pre-pregnancy), but do they start to get back to something that resembles your previous body type? I especially thought this would be true since I didn't have the whole inflated hip/butt/****s thing during pregnancy (to my chagrin). I still have narrow everything, just lots of extra belly fat, despite having a net loss. Essentially, I'm "fatter" even though I weigh 15 pounds less. Very odd.
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I'm thinking it's just a change in muscle tone, which I'm sure can be reversed. Of course, it doesn't seem to be going any direction, even 3 months later...I don't know.
I'm not really looking for any sympathy, just confirmation that my thought process is right ... or advice to start over with my wardrobe, if that's what is necessary.
Thoughts? Maybe I am thankful it's still t-shirt/jeans weather![]()
Unfortunately that baby "fat" is hard to get rid of. I know people that have managed to do it and look fabulous, but it is more work than I care to put in. I also find that I gain much quicker in that area than I did per kids. It seems to be the first to come and last to go. Of course Colby is almost 6 and I haven't had a flat belly since 1995
I'm sure a little exercise would go a long way in my case.
For all the blues, frustrations and anxieties that we all face.I was so frustrated when I left work last night that I actually said something to my boss since talking to my coworker is clearly not working. He is lazy, slow and unwilling to help. I was an opener last night, but stayed to help close since there were only 2 on. He one coworker (he also works at Toyota with Chris) has had closing procedures explained to him week after week since the beginning of the year yet he still doesn't get it or even put forth and effort
1/2 hour before we closed I explained in detail what he should be doing at that point to be ready to close and he did NOTHING. Then we carried all the salad bar stuff in and again he did NOTHING except talk to the one party he had left. Then he had the audacity to say that he has no reason to hurry to get home to his wife and kid so why rush
Herein lies the problem. We work as a team and the work must be all done before any of the closers can leave. So we do our own jobs then his so that we can go home. I told my boss that I'm not carrying is a$$ anymore, I'm just leaving.Today my notebook computer came back. I was so excited so I opened the box and sat down to try it out. There is a new keyboard (no more broken D key) and a new cord and apparently the internal part was replaced too
So I turn it on and it needs to update...okay. It starts downloading an XP fix or something and I attempt to log into my email. It shut down
That was the third thing they were supposed to fix. So call HP again and they confirmed that there are no notes of them even checking for shut down issues even though it was on the repair order. Another shipping label is on its way to me so that I can send it out again
I just made it to pick up Colby at school and we ended up heading to the plaza to pick up supplies for Mr. Potato Head. No luck finding white gloves though. I may need to hit the tuxedo store since I only have a couple of days left. I did find some great buys at Kmart on summer clothes for the boys for next year. I also found size 16 Hanes underwear for $.90 for a 7 pack. Nick is all set anyway, but I bought a bunch anyway
I guess the other boys will grow into them eventually 

) than I'm buying now, but you know how it goes.... nothing fits right, whether it's hanging off of me or "the right size".
). I still have narrow everything, just lots of extra belly fat, despite having a net loss. Essentially, I'm "fatter" even though I weigh 15 pounds less. Very odd.

Hope today was better!
We have those days.