A member of my party was approved yesterday for DLR in mid-April.
We haven't applied since before the new guidelines, so this was our first experience under the new guidelines. This person is ND. Given the age and mental maturity level, I do the screening process on their behalf. I did not notice a big difference between before and now.
The CM was equally as attentive and thoughtful as they have always been -- whether or not they had any medical or professional training, and whether or not they were employed by Disney or a third-party contractor, was not apparent or discussed. The CM asked "what happens when [name] waits in line?" The CM asked some questions about strategies we have to deal with issues when they arise. And the CM asked some questions about other formal and informal accommodations that are made in this person's daily life. Each time, I took a moment to think about the question and collect my thoughts and then responded just as if a friend was asking me the question -- probably not terribly artfully, but real.
And let's be real: I have had these conversations countless times with family and friends so talking about these topics is not something out of the ordinary for me -- if you have a close family member who is ND, you're probably in the same boat and, like me, you're going to realize that the conversation with the CM is much more natural than you expected. I was not at any time made to feel like I needed to use certain buzz words, follow a certain formula, fit in a certain box, or answer rapid-fire.
There were a couple of times when I said "I don't know," "it depends," or "that's a hard question to answer." If you know someone who is ND, you know that there is no playbook for life -- quite literally, you take everything as it comes. And even though I'm sure that's not the answer that gets you the gold medal, that's the honest truth.
At the end, the CM did talk to me about RTQ as one additional accommodation that exists, and how to use it, but it was not in the context of "you need to be using RTQ rather than the traditional
DAS accommodation" -- it was in the context of "this is also available if it helps in any way."
Relaying this anecdote just in case it helps ease someone's anxiety -- I understand why folks have anxiety about this because of how life changing this accommodation is for many people. Just relax, think about the question you are being asked, and be open and honest with your response and it will turn out just fine.