...Thanks for the responses everyone. I didn't really get an answer to my original question (except perhaps in the lack of an answer)...
I'm sorry for your feelings of frustration Tammy. I guess, for me, I did think I was answering your question but now that I look at the specific questions you had in your original post, I realize that my comments are also guilty of not addressing what you specifically asked. I will try again:
...So, what I'm wondering is if anyone calculates the cost of their time into the cost of buying resale along with the standard point cost, closing costs, etc.?...
No. Purely for the simple fact that no one is offering to pay me for my "down" time. If you do your negotiating during your "down" time (which I did) then there is zero cost of your time - in dollars. Certainly I have heard the expression "What's your time worth?" but doing this sort of "work" is very subjective. If I had to buy DVC resales for a living, I would charge $10 an hour. If I had to change dirty diapers for a living, I would charge $10,000 an hour...
...Say you spend a total of 100 hours before you find, close and see the points in your account for that perfect contract. At $20 per hour (someone making an annual salary of $45k makes more than that per hour...so for many, I'm guessing that is far less than your hourly rate), that's an additional $2k for the contract...
As Doug mentioned, contractors who can bill 24-hours a day may be the people to direct this question to. Or, if anyone actually had to take off time from work to deal with negotiating a resale, then they could give you a better understanding of factoring lost work revenue into the equation.
...But am I the only one who questions the time investment required vs the cost savings?
With this, it seems that you are asking a second question - by taking away the "money" component and, to me, it is the more viable question for most people. Does anyone feel that they were
wasting their "down" time on the whole resale process...? My answer is no. I would say that it took about 60 minutes of my time in total speaking on the phone with my broker on numerous occasions to put together two resale deals. Phone time with a DVC Guide would probably have been much less, but I do not feel that the additional time I spent in this regard was a waste. In addition to that, I had to print out paperwork, read paperwork and sign and return paperwork but I would have done all of that if I had bought direct from Disney as well so that time spent is a wash. Certainly, time spent waiting through the ROFR period and then the resale closing is a heck of a lot longer than the time waiting for a direct through Disney closing and is the bulk of your time "spent". But "waiting" is very different than actively "working" so I couldn't begin to guess how to quantify that - unless I look at the money I saved as "payment" for waiting (and conversely a direct buyer could see it as paying to not have to wait)? There are other variables here as well and that's what other posters mentioned. There is no harm in waiting if I'm not in any sort of hurry at all (which I personally am not). If I were in a hurry then the time spent waiting on a resale to close probably wouldn't be worth it. I guess the worst part is going through all of the paperwork and phone calls only to have Disney ROFR your resale contract (which did happen to one of mine). So, in that respect, the time I spent "working" on the ROFRed contract was a "waste" (say 30 minutes, plus the time it took to print, read, fill out/sign, witness, and copy the paperwork - about another 60 minutes).
For me, I would have to say that the investment of my time (both working and waiting) is definitely worth the money that I saved buying resale. Buying into DVC (via resale) is not a dirty job and while I wouldn't say I felt any "thrill of the hunt", it was not an unenjoyable process.
I hope this answers your question and I apologize if any of my own comments seemed to be antagonistic. I personally don't think anyone here was out to call you an "idiot". I just think your specific questions may have been misinterpreted in the context of your background comments. I also see that many people on these boards do encourage people to buy direct IF certain conditions need to be met. People need to do what's right for them - direct or resale - it's all good
Terri