Imzadi
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I completely agree with this, HOWEVER, 5'2" Star is not defenseless. Maybe I'm just a little sensitive in some way to this, but Star is verbally controlling and munipulative and I absolutely would not take it. I feel his reaction to STAR was completely appropriate, and frankly, I would've been meaner. I was totally ok with the way NeNe handled Star, and if NeNe were a man, he would've been hauled into court.
Just my two cents, I'm ready for the flames!![]()
Maybe I wasn't fully clear in what I said. Yes, Star is very emotionally and verbally manipulative, controlling and demeaning. Meatloaf & Star could have gotten into it verbally more. I couldn't believe he let that comment about him not having credentials at her level, go.

Notice, I didn't have a problem with Star & NeNe going after each other. Even if they have a black gal, chick fight,


I also and might have said I have no problem with any two people: male or female, male AND female evenly matched going at it.
I think it was Robin who said she was hoping to see Gary go off on Star the way he did with Gary. While I have no problem with him verbally, argumentatively getting into it with her, debating her, etc., I DO have a problem with any person, male or female, using their BIGGER/STRONGER physical strength or size to bully, intimidate, dominate or physically threaten another person who is NOT evenly matched.
In Meatloaf's tirade at Gary, he DID physically threaten him. He raised his fist, like he threatened to hit him. (I DON'T think Robin meant him to go off on Star that way though.) A big guy of 280 lbs. who looks like he is turning purple and red, and going off, shaking, like he could physically lose it, right in Star's face, would be scary.


I just finished posting on the Criminal Minds thread how Jennifer Lopez's character learned the martial arts, Krav Maga, in the movie Enough, when she went to kick the butt out of her abusive battering husband:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wPnrmg7DYyA
I think that made her evenly matched to her battering hubby.
