Cart Narcs ... I mean, I get it, but when did this become a thing?

I would be very afraid if someone was yelling at me in a parking lot and not allowing me to leave. They may do that to the wrong person one day and pay some serious consequences for something they see as a prankish thing to do. I agree that there could be some very valid reasons why on that particular day a person (who maybe normally takes the cart to the corral) leaves the cart in the lot. If that person is already upset or distracted about something serious, confronting them about a shopping cart might not be the best thing to do.

FWIW, the radio person in question doesn't yell or scream or curse. He's actually quite polite, albeit annoying. The worse thing he does is call the offender "lazy bones" which just seems to trigger everyone. Several people he calls out actually DO tell him he's right and they return their cart. It's just the ones that lose their **** that make it to air.
 
I always return mine and even go so far and to straighten out the carts that are in the corral if they are just randomly pushed in there and not nestled into the one in front of it. It only takes a few extra seconds and allows more room for more carts to be returned. Nothing bothers me more than getting ready to turn into a space and not be able to get into it because there is a cart sitting there. If the corral I'm going to is full, I'll walk to the next one and not just leave my cart beside it. Again, doesn't take that long and the extra steps certainly aren't going to hurt me. As far as littles, I would empty my cart and push it back to the corral with my son in it then, he and I would walk back to the car with me holding his hand. Never hurt him to walk either. That same son has worked in the grocery store business on and off since he was 15, he is now 39 so carts randomly in parking lots are a big deal for him even now that he is management. Yes, there is an employee that gets paid to go get them but that is not that employee's only job and sometimes if the store is a busy one, they don't get time to get out there and gather them as often as a smaller store would. I look at it the same way as yes, there is an employee to clean up the streets at WDW but that doesn't mean I should throw my trash down, as a matter of fact my son or I will walk out of our way to pick up trash if we see it. As far as that show, I've never seen it but think the concept is silly and I would probably have something to say to someone if I saw them doing that to someone else.
 
I’m older than you and I remember before parking lot corrals we walked to cart to the front of the store.

Also back in the old days (lol, I'm a 70s baby), the clerks at our grocery unloaded our groceries into the trunk and took the cart back so a corral wasn't necessary.

We also had an odd grocery store where they used a conveyor belt to transport the groceries outside and you drove up to have them put into your trunk.
 
I would never confront someone for not taking their cart back to the store or corral, but I sure as heck will silently judge you for being a lazy slob (just like people who don't use their turn signals, or fully stop at stop signs, or run red lights...) I doesn't ruin my day, but it sure is an inconvenience to others.
 

That sounds just plain mean. You don't know why someone is not returning their cart and it is not up to this guy to confront them. I return my cart to the cart corral but I am not going to confront or judge anyone or doesn't.
 
So would you go into the store and make a mess intentionally? After all, an employee would have to clean it up in addition to their other duties, so they can use the extra pay, right? What a strange validation.
I would use the store to shop and that means rarely but occasionally there will be a mess. I always offer to clean it up but have never been allowed to. Cleaning up an occasional accident is a cost of doing business.

But yes, the store pays people to provide service to customers. If you can somehow convince those customers to provide those same services themselves...

Let's say some portion of us ... like 100% start doing for ourselves all the things that employee is paid to do. We all start ringing up our own groceries, cleaning up our occasional accidents in the aisle, counting our own cans into the sorting machine, returning our carts to the storefront. What store is going to keep paying that employee?

Large stores don't expect 100% of us to do this but the more of us they can convince to do so before the volume of sales suffers, the fewer people they hire to do it. If they pass that savings on to the customer in exchange for that extra work it would be one thing. Instead, they encourage a moral premium paid for this new duty and pass the money they save by reducing staff on to the owners or shareholders.

Then why not do the least you can do?
I almost always do the least I can do... but sometimes I'm just a human being with human failings. Maybe I spent 9 hours hammering metal, my tendinitis is going bonkers (the vibration of pushing the cart can set it off) and the store decided to skimp on corrals and the closest one is 60-70 yards away. That's about what it would take to get me to shirk.

And now technology does a lot of that.
Taking $20 worth of cans back used to take 3 or 4 minutes, now it takes 15. The technology saves the store a man-hour or two of pay each day by shifting the burden of labor onto the customer with a system that takes 5 times as long.

Seriously 4 pages on grocery carts ?!?!! Is this what life has come to?
The first time I saw this guy's videos and read the comments I was surprised by just how 'torches and pitchforks' people got over this.

Cost me $985 to repaint the damage. ($985 = $1,544 in 2020 dollars) I had a $1000 deductible so it was out of my pocket.
Valuable lesson there, I mean in addition to the insight on corralling carts, another dollar or two a month for your comprehensive would have got your deductible down to $500 or less.

It’s the right thing to do
How do you know though? Who decides? How do they know?

I think it's a nice thing to do, and I try to be nice whenever possible. But I'm leery of the surety that comes with thinking there is one right option. It let's me think that if I'm doing the right thing, people who don't do what I'm doing must be wrong. Besides being very egocentric, this thinking dehumanizes people who believe differently than I do, it makes it easier to tolerate their poor treatment; it's easier to laugh when bully is being cruel to someone who's 'wrong'.


FWIW, the radio person in question doesn't yell or scream or curse. He's actually quite polite, albeit annoying. The worse thing he does is call the offender "lazy bones" which just seems to trigger everyone.
He is not polite. He affects a saccharine tone that is more smarmy than anything. He approaches strangers, sometimes from out of the bushes, and refuses to back off when asked. In at least one video he intentionally moves their cart into the path of the lazybones' car. In one case the woman was practically fleeing from him and didn't see the cart. While he has videos with men as the target, his subjects are disproportionately women and I think he enjoys their shock and fear at this strange man blocking their way a bit too much.

He reminds me of the 'you're welcome' guy. Ever see this guy? The guy who holds a door for someone, but if they don't say "thank you" as they pass through the door he yells, "You're welcome!" The idea being to loudly shame the person by pointing out how rude they were.

There's at least one comedian with this as a bit. I've heard a lot of people brag about doing this or describe wanting to do this. And I saw it happen once in the wild.
 
I would use the store to shop and that means rarely but occasionally there will be a mess. I always offer to clean it up but have never been allowed to. Cleaning up an occasional accident is a cost of doing business.

But yes, the store pays people to provide service to customers. If you can somehow convince those customers to provide those same services themselves...

Let's say some portion of us ... like 100% start doing for ourselves all the things that employee is paid to do. We all start ringing up our own groceries, cleaning up our occasional accidents in the aisle, counting our own cans into the sorting machine, returning our carts to the storefront. What store is going to keep paying that employee?

Large stores don't expect 100% of us to do this but the more of us they can convince to do so before the volume of sales suffers, the fewer people they hire to do it. If they pass that savings on to the customer in exchange for that extra work it would be one thing. Instead, they encourage a moral premium paid for this new duty and pass the money they save by reducing staff on to the owners or shareholders.
The stores already have people going out to get the carts out of the corral. Are you trying to justify leaving the carts randomly in the parking lot help keep someone employed? That's an intentional act. So why not make an intentional mess in the aisle? That way you're keeping someone employed? It's the same argument. You think making EXTRA work for someone is good for them.

Personally I put the cart in the corrals (or back at the entrance) because I wouldn't want a loose one dinging MY car. "Treat others as you'd like them to treat you."

Do what you want. It's not illegal. But don't be surprised if someone judges you for it (and more than likely, you'd never know anyway).
 
Also back in the old days (lol, I'm a 70s baby), the clerks at our grocery unloaded our groceries into the trunk and took the cart back so a corral wasn't necessary.

We also had an odd grocery store where they used a conveyor belt to transport the groceries outside and you drove up to have them put into your trunk.
Stop & Shop in my city used to do that when I was a kid.
I would never confront someone for not taking their cart back to the store or corral, but I sure as heck will silently judge you for being a lazy slob (just like people who don't use their turn signals, or fully stop at stop signs, or run red lights...) I doesn't ruin my day, but it sure is an inconvenience to others.
Ooh! Can we have a thread about turn signals and rolling "stops"?
But yes, the store pays people to provide service to customers. If you can somehow convince those customers to provide those same services themselves...
Then the people employed to do that can be moved to other areas.
How do you know though? Who decides? How do they know?

I think it's a nice thing to do
Is the nice thing to do not also the right thibg?
 
So annoying when you find a great spot only to start pulling in to see a cart blocking the space.

I return my cart to the store or the corral because it is courteous and takes an extra minute or two.

My husband often grabs the bags and just leaves the cart in the store before we exit, unless we have cumbersome items or too many groceries to carry between us.

People with “bits“ about silly things are fine to do so, I just don’t usually watch the bits.
 
When you arrive you don’t have a cart full of groceries to carry & your small children. You can carry them Til you get a cart.

Or, you know, you could load your car, push your kids and the cart to the corral, leave the cart there, and then take your kids with you back to the car. You walked from the car to a cart with your kids. Not sure why it would be hard to walk with your kids from the cart to the car. I did that when mine were little.
 
Or, you know, you could load your car, push your kids and the cart to the corral, leave the cart there, and then take your kids with you back to the car. You walked from the car to a cart with your kids. Not sure why it would be hard to walk with your kids from the cart to the car. I did that when mine were little.
Yeah someone already mentioned that. Good thing is no one cares in my area so I’m good.
 












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