Broken Promise

[LuvsDragonflies]

Well, according to the original post, he was going to take her to the movies today. The anniversary is tomorrow. Doesn't seem like hte movie was an anniversary promise. Seems like the movie date happened to be close to the 9 month anniversary date. He told her he'd take her to see the Lion King ... didn't say it was for their anniversary. That leads me to believe he had no idea how close the movie date and the anniversary were. However, it seems like she was seeing it as part of their anniversary.

But hey, what do I know!?!?

Aha, well then it's her fault. OFF WITH HER HEAD!



Now I'm completely confused.

 

[MichelleVW]

I'm still confused on what the heck a 9 month anniversary is and why is anyone over the age of 13 celebrating one!

 

[LuvsDragonflies]

MOOOOM! Michelle is being all sensible and stuff again!

 

[CurlyGirl]

Aha, well then it's her fault. OFF WITH HER HEAD!



Now I'm completely confused.

No, no, no ... you were totally right! I misread!!! I am loling because you quoted my post. After I posted, I went back and reread what the OP wrote and saw that I was totally wrong. You caught my post before I got to edit it saying that were right!! She did state that he promised the movie for the anniversary in the OP!

I totally need a nap. Or a drink!!!!

Sorry for the confusion!!!!

 

[Liberty Belle]

OP, I'm sorry you were disappointed. It sounds like this was really important to you and you were let down. I'm glad your fiance got you a gift and I hope he's able to make it up to you.

Don't worry about what people are saying about a 9 month anniversary being ridiculous. If you and your fiance want to acknowledge 9 months together, that's your choice and there's nothing wrong with celebrating love, in my opinion.

I understand not being able to afford a movie. I've been there before. I think some people have been living with everything they need (and most wants) for so long, they forget that there are many, many people around them who are struggling financially.

What I don't understand is why an adult would make fun of someone who is struggly financially. But, that just says stuff about the kind of person they are, it says nothing about you.

I wish you and your fiance many, many years of wedded bliss...for richer or poorer.

 

[LuvsDragonflies]

From indignant, to staunch, to uncertain, to dazed, confused and now right??





Have a good life OP and live it like you want.

 

[C.Ann]

OP, I'm sorry you were disappointed. It sounds like this was really important to you and you were let down. I'm glad your fiance got you a gift and I hope he's able to make it up to you.

Don't worry about what people are saying about a 9 month anniversary being ridiculous. If you and your fiance want to acknowledge 9 months together, that's your choice and there's nothing wrong with celebrating love, in my opinion.

I understand not being able to afford a movie. I've been there before. I think some people have been living with everything they need (and most wants) for so long, they forget that there are many, many people around them who are struggling financially.

What I don't understand is why an adult would make fun of someone who is struggly financially. But, that just says stuff about the kind of person they are, it says nothing about you.

I wish you and your fiance many, many years of wedded bliss...for richer or poorer.

Very nice post..

 

[Goofyluver]

OP, I'm sorry you were disappointed. It sounds like this was really important to you and you were let down. I'm glad your fiance got you a gift and I hope he's able to make it up to you.

Don't worry about what people are saying about a 9 month anniversary being ridiculous. If you and your fiance want to acknowledge 9 months together, that's your choice and there's nothing wrong with celebrating love, in my opinion.

I understand not being able to afford a movie. I've been there before. I think some people have been living with everything they need (and most wants) for so long, they forget that there are many, many people around them who are struggling financially.

What I don't understand is why an adult would make fun of someone who is struggly financially. But, that just says stuff about the kind of person they are, it says nothing about you.

I wish you and your fiance many, many years of wedded bliss...for richer or poorer.

Here, here!

OP, sorry you were upset, sweetheart. Sometimes the biggest disappointments come from what others may see as the littlest things.

 

[aprilgail2]

I'm still confused on what the heck a 9 month anniversary is and why is anyone over the age of 13 celebrating one!

LOL--I am more confused by getting engaged to someone you have only known for 9 months!!

To th OP-why such a long engagement? This is something I simply don't "get"- when DH and I decided to marry=we did -4 months later.

FOUR MONTHS ?? Wow, you can't even get a hall here without a years notice!

 

[MichelleVW]

LOL--I am more confused by getting engaged to someone you have only known for 9 months!!

!

I'm not one to talk there...Met DH in November 2003 and got engaged in Jan 2004 and married July 2004. We've been crazy happy ever since!!

But even with our extremely short dating history we never celebrated "month anniversaries". That's reserved for kids in middle school.

 

[2girls4me]

I'm still confused on what the heck a 9 month anniversary is and why is anyone over the age of 13 celebrating one!

D to the itto.

 

[hambirg]

Take up fishing.

 

[LuvsDragonflies]

Take up fishing.

Probably the best advice yet.

 

[HelenePA]

My mom and dad were engaged after 6wks... hey when ya know, ya know... I guess.. It took me and dh 14yrs and 4 kids to get married...

OP I'm sorry you weren't able to see the movie tonight... Hopefully he'll make it up to you soon.

 

[DebIreland]

DIS threads are like Chinese Whispers.

Page 1 = The simple tale of a young man who, due to some budget restraints, had to postpone a trip to the cinema with his fiancee. No big deal.

Page 7 = A good for nothin', double-crossin', disloyal, broke-a$$, unreliable, lyin', beer swiggin' son of a -itch who should be dumped before the last trout is even reeled in.

Seriously people. Chill ............................................................... out!

 

[Grumpy's Gal]

I'm pretty sure the OP is in her mid twenties so not really young.

OP, best wishes that you get to spend some time with your fiance and like others have said, don't sweat the small stuff. Just be thankful you have each other!

 

[LuvsDragonflies]

DIS threads are like Chinese Whispers.

Page 1 = The simple tale of a young man who, due to some budget restraints, had to postpone a trip to the cinema with his fiancee. No big deal.

Page 9 = A good for nothin', double-crossin', disloyal, broke-a$$, unreliable, lyin' bear swiggin' son of a -itch who should be dumped before the last trout is even reeled in.

Seriously people. Chill ............................................................... out!

I'm pretty sure it all went down hill on page one, but what do I know?

 

[grumpy101]

Me and my Fiancee worked everything out he bought me Chocolate and Rose and he made it up to me and apologized for not being able to take me to see the movie.

 

[quasar4legs]

Me and my Fiancee worked everything out he bought me Chocolate and Rose and he made it up to me and apologized for not being able to take me to see the movie.

So pleased it has worked out

 

[shortbun]

Great that you worked it out. I'm sure he's a nice guy. He's a fisherman and the call of the pole will win out many times in your lives. You must be understanding about his desire of manly pursuits for the rest of your life. Not a bad thing unless you think it is. It will not change. Just sayin. Might as well write it into your vows. Does he also hunt and watch baseball and/or football in season passionately. Many do.