Bringing ice into an Indian restaurant? OK to do?

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If all they serve are those drinks you mentioned and luke warm water, I'd bring the ice--lukewarm water is gross! Why is this such a big deal? I understand customs and all, but you are not in India, you are in the USA. How about adjusting to OUR customs?
But why? It's not as if the restaurant owners are asking or expecting their customers to adapt to Indian customs in everyday life. They do, reasonably, expect their customers to eat only the products made available in and by the restaurant when dining in the restaurant.

Somebody above mentioned they 'must' have a freezer. Aside from not necessarily, if they don't use frozen product - any freezer a restaurant does have is for storing food safely. Expecting them to use freezer space to make ice cubes (in who knows how many purchased ice cube trays, because the industrial freezer won't come with any) is unreasonable. An ice maker is a separate appliance in a restaurant kitchen.
 
Good grief, they (the restaurant) are in the USA, if you want ice, bring it in. I'd be willing to bet rather than get strange looks from other customers, they'll ask where you got the ice because they want some too.

If all they serve are those drinks you mentioned and luke warm water, I'd bring the ice--lukewarm water is gross! Why is this such a big deal? I understand customs and all, but you are not in India, you are in the USA. How about adjusting to OUR customs?

If someone wants to go to a restaurant with American customs, perhaps they should go to TGIFridays or Ruby Tuesdays instead of an Indian restaurant. Strangely enough, when I want to try a foreign cuisine, I'd like the experience to be as authentic as possible.

I can't believe how many people insist that they can only drink beverages that are ice cold. Adaptability (especially over really minor issues like the temperature of your drinking water!) used to be considered an admirable quality...instead, now it seems as people regard it as "giving in".
 
A little adaptability is always a good thing too.

I think we as a society (not referring to PD here, now I'm just generalizing) have become so used to getting what we want, when we want it, and how we want it that we'll be as rude as we have to be to get our way.

If this were my family, I'd see two options. Just drink the water as is and get used to it -- yes, you can get used to it. Or get the food as take out and enjoy the ice at home. Bringing my own ice would not even occur to me to do.

Great post...my thoughts exactly :thumbsup2
 
About bringing bbq sause into a bbq restaurant...I am going to assume they have bbq sauce there. What about bringing in a bday cake? Most places allow this, especially if they don't have them! The restaurant I work at even allows guests to bring in their own wine without an uncorking fee, eventhough we have a very extensive wine list. The reasoning? We'd rather they still dine with us!
Anyway, true to Dis form, the slightest question or request for advice can turn into a debate. Good luck, PD, like I said before-enjoy your Indian food and icy cold beverage!
 

Drink what is offered or go elsewhere.

It is tacky beyond belief (not to mention, it may be against health code) to bring your own ice.
 
Okay, a friend actually explained why they don't take drinks with ice. Unfortunately, I don't remember-something to do with balancing energies or something? Anyway, I don't think it is weird or tacky when Indians ask for no ice in their drinks at the restaurant I work at, so why should it be any different when you bring in ice? You're not asking for anything special or causing them trouble.

I did find this at allexperts under ice;


Traditionally, drinks in the United States are served with ice; in Europe they are served with or without ice. In India and other parts of the world, it has traditionally been viewed as unhealthy to drink a libation with ice. Many older Indians still refuse to use it.

Deepak Chopra said that once. He said in Pranic/Indian energetic medicine they believe drinks colder than room temperature are a shock to the system. He also said that in the summer or in intense heat to NOT use ice water to cool down the body. That it actually has a reverse effect. It does not cool down the body.

That's hogwash. Because one of the warnings for hypothermia (freezing to death) is to never eat snow or ice if you are trapped in a snow storm somewhere because: Eating ice or snow will lower the body temperature. So much for that part of Indian energetic medicine. :rolleyes:


How would you feel if someone brought their own BBQ sauce to your BBQ restaurant?
That's an improper analogy because you don't go to an Indian restaurant for the ice. The ice is an aside. Presumably, if you go to a BBQ restaurant, it is FOR the BBQ sauce. :sad2: If you are going to make an analogy, make one that is a real equivalent one. :teacher:


I traveled to Pune India on business in March. The company gave us a list of restrictions for our safety, no ice, no tap water, no fresh vegetables. At the beginning of the meal, they would ask if you wanted bottled water, they would bring a liter size to the table, which we were charged for, even at the free breakfast the hotel offered. If we wanted a soft drink, they would bring it in a can. I can't remember if we were ever offered ice, I don't think so. I do remember on the plane coming home when they asked if I wanted ice with my drink I said yes, I really missed it!

I heard it's like that too in Mexico. You are not only supposed to not drink the water, but not to even get sodas with ice, as the ice is made from their water. Nor, are you supposed to brush your teeth with tap water. You are supposed to use bottled water for everything. If ou order a bottle of water, make sure the waiter brings it to the table and you see/hear him crack open the seal at your table. You do not want to have a bottle they possibly filled up at the tap.


PD, as for your question, I'd toss a couple liter bottles of water in the freezer overnight (leave space as ice expands) and simply bring the bottles in in a bag with me. Make sure you set them out for a while so that they are only partially frozen - or you will have no water, just all ice. Ask for empty cups only and fill up the cups with your own icy cold water. :drinking1
 
I've been to 2 Indian restaurants that supply you with a nice glass of water, but the water has no ice, and they don't have ice even if you ask.... ( we asked last night, and were politely told "no". )

I guess it is an Indian custom, or something, but my family likes their water to be nice and cold. So we are contemplating bringing a thermos of ice with us next time.

Think that is reasonable?

is it not their choice to serve what they want in their restaurant? If they dont want to serve ice then they dont serve ice - its not the customers god-given right to have anything they want in any setting.

I - for example - don't like ice in my drinks, so I would be very happy one imagines with their no ice servings.

If you're really that put out, get a carry-out and take it home to eat, or else whats so bad about drinking chilled rather than ice water for 1 hour - I really dont see the problem, its not as if its a different drink.
 
How about bringing in chilled bottled water?
 
Wow so many upset that he wants to bring in ice, its not like he wants to bring in his own food.


Here is one for you - my sister works at a restaurant where the older ladies bring their used tea bags from home with them to have a cup of tea with dinner. NO ONE has a problem with that and if the owner found out a waitress did have a problem said waitress would lose her job.
 
I did find this at allexperts under ice;


Traditionally, drinks in the United States are served with ice; in Europe they are served with or without ice. In India and other parts of the world, it has traditionally been viewed as unhealthy to drink a libation with ice. Many older Indians still refuse to use it.

So I would guess that if you brought it in they would be offended.

How would you feel if someone brought their own BBQ sauce to your BBQ restaurant?


Absolutely fine.
 
Oh c'mon. You wouldn't be the least bit offended? I find that hard to believe considering how proud you are of your BBQ.

No kidding. Barbecue is a religion :worship: in some parts of the country, and bringing your own sauce to a restaurant could cause a riot.
 
Oh c'mon. You wouldn't be the least bit offended? I find that hard to believe considering how proud you are of your BBQ.

Not offended at all. I certainly don't expect everybody to love it. That would be impossible.

But anyway it is a bad analogy because my BBQ sauce would be offered and available, while ice is not being offered or available.
 
Not offended at all. I certainly don't expect everybody to love it. That would be impossible.

But anyway it is a bad analogy because my BBQ sauce would be offered and available, while ice is not being offered or available.

No, not really. You expect that when customers come into your restaurant you expect them to eat your food you make with your sauce, just like the Indian owners would expect their customers to drink their drinks the way they make them, which is sans ice.

But regardless, if you don't want to respect what may or may not be important to them culturally, then so be it. Me, I would choose not to possibly disrespect them. I could live through a meal without ice.
 
I think bringing in your own barbecue sauce to his restaurant would be a much better analogy if he wanted to bring curry into the Indian restaurant, at which point I would agree that that was rude.
 
papa, just do what you want, dude. you probably knew you would get both answers on both sides of the aisle here. and i would bet anything that you already have your mind made up about what you are going to do.
 
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