MelanieC
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Hi,
Just wondering how I can join.
Can anyone help me?
Welcome to WISH!
Hi,
Just wondering how I can join.
Can anyone help me?
Hi Guys!
I'm coming back with my tail between my legs. It has not been a good weekend. To make the contrast worse, my dh did a Half marathon yesterday, mowed the lawn, weeded and poisoned, and took ds to see "Night at the Museum". I laid around and read books...
I know I need to just get back on track. Holiday weekends are not good for me. I look forward to them, but I just don't follow through with exercise or eating right. I guess I need to schedule a race so I will have to do what I need to.
scale doesnt seem to be budging - at the gym morn and night - watching more what i eat - quit drinking -- HOWEVER the stress is there and been having tons of it since about Sept - aggravating
scale doesnt seem to be budging - at the gym morn and night - watching more what i eat - quit drinking -- HOWEVER the stress is there and been having tons of it since about Sept - aggravating
Hi, everyone.
I have read through a lot of the posts, but not all. I decided to introduce myself anyway. I am 40 and have struggled trying to lose weight for a good 10 years. From age 26 to present my weight crept from 145 to 215 (what I'm at presently). I've had two kids within the past 5 years, and my youngest is 8 1/2 mos. I want to get this weight off before I get up there into my 40's.
My biggest obstacle has been my own mind. At the end of the day I will say "Go ahead, eat what you want, start tomorrow!" I have had the "start tomorrow" syndrome for over 10 years now. No longer. I have to gain control of my own mind in order to beat this weight issue. I want to be active for my kids -- they are in the fun stages of life now and I want to be active right along with them.
Here is my plan:
Eating: 1600 calories a day, broken up in 4 meals, each of 400 calories. A LOT of protein to keep my hunger in check.
Exercise: Couch to 5k, which has me walking/jogging 3x a week for about 20 minutes. Then 3x a week of Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred, which is 20 minutes.
What is missing is the mental strategy, which has always tripped me up. I'm a binge eater when it comes to stress, like after a stressful day with the kids. If anyone has any advice on how to handle this part, I would be so happy to hear it.
Anyway, I look forward to losing a LOT of weight with all of you!
One more thing: my husband has told me time and again if I lose this weight i can have ANYTHING I want! So, that in itself should be enough motivation, no? Especially since I want to take yet another trip to WDW for MNSSHP in October and since we JUST got back from DLR, there is no way he'd let me do this.... UNLESS I show him I am finally serious and drop a good chunk of the weight.
Welcome to the WISH BL Summer Challenge! I think we can all relate to the "mental" issues associated with losing weight.
It is truly a struggle EVERY DAY for me and I know it will continue to be. But I am definitely doing better and reminding myself that by tomorrow the taste of that cookie (or whatever) in my mouth will be long gone and forgotten, but the fat will still be there on my body. I keep reminding myself that I really CAN'T remember the desserts (or whatever) I've given up over the last year and a half, but I can definitely remember that THRILL on the scale when I've lost weight and when I have received a compliment (many of them in fact) about my weight loss. I can also definitely remember the thrill of putting on clothes that are TOO BIG! The feeling of being able to get dressed without feeling ugly and fat, the feeling of meeting new people without being self-conscious, the feeling of having my photo taken without dreading it... those feelings are worth SO MUCH MORE than the short-term feeling of that chocolate on my tongue. I just have to keep reminding myself about that (over, and over, and over sometimes!!). Plus I have found that now that I am eating much healthier, when I eat poorly (overeating, making poor choices, too much fat, etc), I feel crummy for DAYS sometimes. It is SO NOT WORTH IT.
You've come to the right place. This is a fabulous support group here. Lots of great ideas are shared and no matter what you are going through, chances are someone here has gone through it and can help! We have folks on Weight Watchers, South Beach, and calorie counters. Lots of different levels of exercise here too. Glad you decided to join us.................P
scale doesnt seem to be budging - at the gym morn and night - watching more what i eat - quit drinking -- HOWEVER the stress is there and been having tons of it since about Sept - aggravating
Sorry to hear how toughs things have been. Not sure what to say about stress. Hopefully things will get better for you soon.
Sorry to be coming on so late this morning. I had to drive DS to school because he had a 3-D model project to bring in. Then I wanted to get in my workout before I lost my momentum. I put in a video from our first trip to WDW in 2002 to watch while I was exercising. What a HOOT to watch! I may end up watching it all day. So cute to see my kids and hear their tiny baby-like voices.... DS says "Cindewewa" and "Dis-a-ney". AWWW!
Watching the video makes me kind of sad because the kids (as all kids do) are growing up SO fast and there will NEVER be another FIRST TRIP to WDW. It was so exciting because everything was a FIRST.... first time seeing the castle, first time meeting MM and the Princesses. While it was far from a PERFECT trip, it was so special... especially in hindsight. Watching this video makes dragging that stupid video camera around day after day SO WORTH IT.
In fact, my parents brought a MOVIE camera along on our first trip to WDW in 1974 and I actually have video (converted from movie) that I can watch of MY first trip to WDW. Again... so worth dragging the camera along (although I am not sure that my DDad thought so at the time... that camera was heavy and big!!
Anyhow, I am rambling on and on. Just feeling a big nostalgic from watching this video. And of course, it makes me want to go back to WDW REAL BAD!!!
Today's QOTD is:
If all of your responsibilities were taken care of for 72 hours, what hobby or sport or activity (other than traveling) would you indulge in during that time?
For me it would DEFINITELY be scrapbooking (and maybe some reading). I love, love, love to scrap and I am so far behind, but I just can't relax and do it until my responsibilities are taken care of (laundry, dishes, vacumming, etc, etc)... and since they are rarely caught up, I don't get to scrap nearly as often as I would like. Sometimes I am able to scrape out a few days at a time, but not lately. Maybe today I can get some done.......P
Hello all...I actually did go to the gym last night. I still don't feel well, but I put in 30 minutes of moderate to high activity and feel good for going and doing it! Hope everyone is having a good day. I have a great low point dinner planned and am so excited!
Sarah