Thank you everyone for your replies and opinions - they truly are helping me to jump off this merry go round of guilt that I've been having. It will be very interesting to see if I'm approached on Friday about why we didn't donate. A few people are pretty bold and will come right out and ask. They are the ones that think we are made of money because we take WDW vacations, but they don't realize how much we sacrifice to save our money to go on these vacations, and that I have a small second job to help pay for our family vacations. Anyway....thanks again everyone. I do appreciate your input on this.