delilah said:
It is too complicated to try to explain they whys and wherefores to you. Children under 5 are never separated from their parents, your point is moot in that respect.
You would not be put in first class as that is not the class of service that you purchased. It is not the airline's problem that your son was frightened, they are under no obligation to solve your issues, if they chose to bend over backwards to accomodate you, they could have, but, they did not.
With a multitude of pax on board any aircraft it is incredibly difficult to accomodate everyone's needs. I am sure you were not the only person on that plane that had needs.
Why is it too complicated to explain? I am certain that there is very little concerning the logistics of scheduling and seat assignments that I, for one, would be incapable of understanding. When I am not given a satisfactory explanation for a situation, I am left to conclude that either the person answering the question hasn't got a clue, or they have a woeful lack of respect for my intelligence. My explanation for the airline problem with not being able to assign seats is that they have relatively unsophisticated algorithms that automatically assign seats, and even less sophisticated people working in the customer service area, some of whom lack basic empathy for their fellow human beings.
I was fortunate in one situation where our family was separated all over the plane that other families were in a similar situation. This was on a flight back from Orlando. We had three window seats, in rows 21 and 22 or so on a plane. There were three seats on one side of the plane, two on the other. The customer service representative was able to switch us around so that the three parties involved were all seated to their satifaction. One was a father and daughter, the other a young couple, and us, a family of three. If the airline really used an algorithm that didn't separate families to assign seats, this wouldn't have happened., because all three parties were separated. The father and daughter was seated next to each other in a three passenger row, the couple in the other two passenger row, and we were three in a row, together. My son was very anxious about the possibility of being separated from us, even though he is eight, very well behaved and an honor student at school. On this particular flight, I had purchased the tickets three months before the seating would even have been assigned, and we were separated, with no empty seats, from the very first day the seats were assigned.
It would seem that, with all things being equal (same fare, etc) that it should be a simple matter for airlines to realize that if I paid for all three tickets with one transaction, we are all in one party. Furthermore, there must be some knowledge of when I purchased my ticket relative to others on the flight. My questions in this reguard were never answered to my satisfaction by the airline representative prior to the flight. It is only a happy coincidence that the situation resolved happily, and lucky for all involved we were assertive enough to request the seat change, which originally was to swap one seat for one of us to sit next to our son.
In the same vein, I have had the unpleasant experience of having the middle seat between to other adults who obviously knew each other, but,neither wanted to sit in the middle seat, and both of whom wanted the arm rests. Talk about a back ache. I had to sit nearly motionless for the entire flight.[/QUOTE]
It is not too complicated to explain to someone that wants to learn. It is too complicated to explain to someone with an entitlement mentality and a mind set in concrete.
I do know what I am talking about, but, really have no desire to teach Airline procedures 101 to anyone. I am not a teacher. It is also not up to me to provide you with a satisfactory explaination of anything. I am not a CSR, have no desire to be one and will never be one.
I have no idea of your level of intelligence and have no need or desire to find out. I am sure the airlines use very sophisticated programs to figure out what the best course of action to maximize the income, lower the expense and deliver a decent bottom line to the stockholders. This is a business, not a charity, the intent is to make money. I am sure the people in the background have a very high level of sophistication and are not given to accusing others of being less than human or stupid if one does not agree with their actions.
The bottom line: watch your reservations. The airlines will not notify you the vast majority of the time. The onus is on you to be watchful of your airline, not the other way around.