Wendy31
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- Mar 5, 2005
I think it would be different if your DS were truly on his own, but he's not. While he is "away" at college, he probably still, at this point, feels like your home is his home - he hasn't yet branched out & made his own home somewhere else.
I actually can't imagine including all but one of my children on a "family" vacation & telling that child that he was no longer welcome.
When my sister & I were in college, my parents still planned family vacations around our schedules - and still paid our way.
That said, I also understand that you're wanting to go to Disney during his school time. However, if he wants to come w/ you & feels he can work the trip around his school schedule, I wouldn't hesitate to include him. Maybe he can fly down separately & join you for part of your trip?
Personally, I just love our time together on family vacations, &, like another poster said, I want all 3 of our kids on our family vacations w/ us as long as possible.
I actually can't imagine including all but one of my children on a "family" vacation & telling that child that he was no longer welcome.
When my sister & I were in college, my parents still planned family vacations around our schedules - and still paid our way.
That said, I also understand that you're wanting to go to Disney during his school time. However, if he wants to come w/ you & feels he can work the trip around his school schedule, I wouldn't hesitate to include him. Maybe he can fly down separately & join you for part of your trip?
Personally, I just love our time together on family vacations, &, like another poster said, I want all 3 of our kids on our family vacations w/ us as long as possible.