The issue I see with
DCL returning to shared tables is the same issue with corporate employers returning to in person work. We can’t just pretend the last 2 years didn’t happen. They did! Lots of the changes were awful, but some of the changes were nice (ie. the new muster operations that everyone seems to like).
We can’t just “go back to how it was before” and pretend we all just didn’t live through a pandemic (and are still currently living through one). Some people experienced multiple traumas over the past 2 years and not wanting to share a table goes deeper than not wanting to be social on a cruise. These types of changes should be considered with more sensitivity to guests and at least have a notification period in place.
Also, “requests” for a private table shouldn’t just be a “request”. For whatever reason, if someone deems that they can’t sit with strangers, they shouldn’t have to, on their very expensive vacation. Disney should do whatever they have to, to accommodate this. Life has changed, and may never be the same for some people, and we should be allowed to recover from that in whatever way is right for us.