Disneycrazed139,
We too are stretching it...a lot! We haven't signed the contracts in our welcome kit yet (just got it yesterday), but I know we will.
We did not join five years ago, when I really, really wanted to. I even typed up six page proposal to DH back then after touring BWV (we're buying into BCV) and he just wouldn't bite. Said we didn't have the money. But...
Honestly, looking back, if we had joined then, we would have probably had the membership paid off by now, and we wouldn't have gone into the poor house over that decison. We would have been fine, just like we are going to be now.
We always seem to find some way to "throw" away money. This would have been a constructive expenditure each month. And if you are vacationing anyway, despite your finances, this at least makes more "cents." Pun intented
Only you can make this decision, but you have options, should this become a hardship. In my six page proposal to DH five years ago, that was one of the last points I made. If we needed to, we could sell our membership. And now, I know another option...renting points. That would help ease a short term lacking of funds.
Anyway, I am not a risk taker in general. But I am going to risk this. I want to help ensure our family takes the time to spend with each other away from the day-to-day. Up until this point, we manged to say, "We can't take a vacation this year." But no more excuses. We're pre-paying!
But, as should probably be the case with you too, if this becomes a hardship (can't send son to college, pay other bills, etc.), we'll sell in a heartbeat. I'm just "banking" it doesn't come to that. another pun intended. I'm on a roll
Good luck with your decision.
ArRzrbk a.k.a. Char