I love SSR. I also enjoy the All Stars but to me there is no comparison. The All Stars are much less relaxing and for an anniversary trip, I'd go with SSR. Frankly, I prefer SSR and OKW over the other
DVC's simply because I like the spread out feel, being able to park right at my unit, and the proximity to DTD.
Here are my reasons for loving and owning at SSR:
The resort is new. The units are lovely, furnished very nicely and since its new, there isn't any of that worn out look yet that all resorts will at some point get!
Being close to DTD means lots of dining options. Not just at DTD either. If you don't have a car, you can get to DTD's bus stop and be at any resort on property very easily.
SSR has my favorite cs option in all of WDW, the Artist's Palette. Great sandwiches, salads, flatbread pizza, bakery items and chili dogs as well as kids meals and breakfast. I really miss that when I stay at Boardwalk and OKW.
The main pool at SSR, High Rock Springs is incredible. Great slide, zero entry, nice pool bar and it just feels like you are at a springs type pool. It also has a second feature pool in the Grandstand area that has its own pool bar as well. And the quiet pools at SSR are lovely too.
Turf Club is very good, we enjoyed dinner there very much a few times. It has a nice quiet atmosphere. I love to sit outdoors at that restaurant.
SSR is very relaxing. Its a great place to stroll, you can rent a bike which is also nice. The landscaping is very pretty, its very manicured, it looks like a golf course its so perfect!
It has a spa which would be nice to indulge in for an anniversary trip.
Again, I love the All Stars. And saving money is never a bad thing. But I can't imagine choosing them over SSR unless I just really needed to save that money. I would miss the full dining options, the nicer units with balconies, the hot tubs, the location of being near DTD and the grounds and peacefulness. And the queen sized beds (or King if you are staying in a one bedroom).
Check out the slideshows on:
www.allearsnet.com if you haven't already. SSR has lots of fans. Some people don't care for its spread out style and location. They want to be near the parks. I happen to love the feeling of still being on property but also away from the hoopla. There's a lot to do nearby but then again, you can just chill and relax right there as well. Give it a try. When I stayed at Boardwalk for example, I missed the grounds, the cs option right there at the resort that SSR has and while it was wonderful and I can see the appeal. I doubt I ever go back. I prefer SSR and OKW (another favorite of mine and very similar).
Good luck with your choice!
P.S. I see you stayed at OKW. Did you like that? Because SSR is similar. But the units are newer and in my opinion much more nicely furnished, more on a deluxe level. Not that OKW isn't nice, but to me its more furnished like a mod and those furnishings/units are starting to show their age a bit. SSR units aren't as spacious (well the studios are about even but the one and two bedrooms are much larger at OKW). They are quite different as well, but if you liked the location and laid back feel of OKW, I can't imagine you wouldn't enjoy SSR as well.