NoSugarNoCream
Earning My Ears
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- Jan 31, 2018
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What are your opinions on sleeping arrangements?
My daughter went to visit her boyfriend’s family and stayed there for several nights. She told me that she slept in his room and he slept on the sofa. They are both in their mid-twenties and live together, but aren’t married. I’m not sure who decided on the arrangement but it got me thinking…what exactly is proper etiquette?
My best friend’s son is having a baby with his girlfriend, yet she won’t allow the girlfriend to sleep over at all (and apparently really doesn’t want them in his room with the door closed either. They are both mid-twenties as well).
Before DD’s boyfriend moved in with her, he came to visit for a couple of weeks and DD said they would be renting an AirBnB for his stay. I really didn’t have a problem with him staying with us, but I thought about saying that he should stay in the guest room.
Just curious about other people’s experiences and opinions. TIA
My daughter went to visit her boyfriend’s family and stayed there for several nights. She told me that she slept in his room and he slept on the sofa. They are both in their mid-twenties and live together, but aren’t married. I’m not sure who decided on the arrangement but it got me thinking…what exactly is proper etiquette?
My best friend’s son is having a baby with his girlfriend, yet she won’t allow the girlfriend to sleep over at all (and apparently really doesn’t want them in his room with the door closed either. They are both mid-twenties as well).
Before DD’s boyfriend moved in with her, he came to visit for a couple of weeks and DD said they would be renting an AirBnB for his stay. I really didn’t have a problem with him staying with us, but I thought about saying that he should stay in the guest room.

Just curious about other people’s experiences and opinions. TIA