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Vent Alert - In-laws
Ok when we booked this cruise a year and a half ago we knew we'd be away from family at Christmas. Family basically means my MIL, FIL, BIL and his wife. FIL is all about the gifts and within 5 minutes they are opened and he's done. MIL is bah humbug from working retail for so many years and BIL's wife does not believe in God and the reason behind Christmas and has been insulting about it in the past.
Now please don't get me wrong - they are all really nice people and I love them all, but Christmas is not their big thing. So a few months ago when they were over we were talking about what to do and I suggested that we just drop the presents off and they could open them Christmas eve as always and we would call them Christmas Day. That didn't seem to sit well so (and I don't remember this part but Mark tells me it is true) I say "well then lets just skip it". Which they took to heart. This wasn't the intent and Mark informed me I was being a witch about it and they want to do a family Christmas before we leave. So all the presents are bought and I ask Mark today when are we getting together. He hasn't heard from FIL. FIL calls later in the day and says they were waiting for us to invite them over. What? The place is a mess. He says he'll talk to MIL but she's working next weekend. Fast forwad to 4 pm and he calls and says "let's get together tonight - 5 pm as usual". Ok so the presents are bought, but not wrapped. So I go in fast wrap mode (they were all big presents not many presents). We get in the car thinking we are going over to celebrate Christmas. Not quite.
They haven't decorated except for a little on the outside. BIL and wife come down (they live upstairs of my in-laws) with no presents in hand. We have pizza and in a while FIL asks about the gifts. We give them ours and they hand us two envelopes.
The good news - wrapping is done, presents are out.
The better news - our presents were stateroom credits for the cruise.
The bad news - it was only our gifts - they are still doing theirs on Christmas eve which is what I suggested in the first place!
Ho Ho Ho - our family Christmas is done. I'm so looking forward to celebrating it with all of you on the ship!

Ok when we booked this cruise a year and a half ago we knew we'd be away from family at Christmas. Family basically means my MIL, FIL, BIL and his wife. FIL is all about the gifts and within 5 minutes they are opened and he's done. MIL is bah humbug from working retail for so many years and BIL's wife does not believe in God and the reason behind Christmas and has been insulting about it in the past.
Now please don't get me wrong - they are all really nice people and I love them all, but Christmas is not their big thing. So a few months ago when they were over we were talking about what to do and I suggested that we just drop the presents off and they could open them Christmas eve as always and we would call them Christmas Day. That didn't seem to sit well so (and I don't remember this part but Mark tells me it is true) I say "well then lets just skip it". Which they took to heart. This wasn't the intent and Mark informed me I was being a witch about it and they want to do a family Christmas before we leave. So all the presents are bought and I ask Mark today when are we getting together. He hasn't heard from FIL. FIL calls later in the day and says they were waiting for us to invite them over. What? The place is a mess. He says he'll talk to MIL but she's working next weekend. Fast forwad to 4 pm and he calls and says "let's get together tonight - 5 pm as usual". Ok so the presents are bought, but not wrapped. So I go in fast wrap mode (they were all big presents not many presents). We get in the car thinking we are going over to celebrate Christmas. Not quite.
They haven't decorated except for a little on the outside. BIL and wife come down (they live upstairs of my in-laws) with no presents in hand. We have pizza and in a while FIL asks about the gifts. We give them ours and they hand us two envelopes.
The good news - wrapping is done, presents are out.
The better news - our presents were stateroom credits for the cruise.
The bad news - it was only our gifts - they are still doing theirs on Christmas eve which is what I suggested in the first place!
Ho Ho Ho - our family Christmas is done. I'm so looking forward to celebrating it with all of you on the ship!