
My 18 year old son had a Tonsil/Adnoid-ectomy on New Year's Eve. Has eaten very little since - some mashed potatoes, some broth from soup, some strained "cream of" soups. I imagine if he had been required to eat toast before coming home after the procedure it would have been very painful, even potentially dangerous. It was so much more than the media is reporting... planned from the beginning to go into PICU afterwards. From what I've read it seems they removed most anything not "required" from her throat area - she was a very heavy girl, and had sleep apnea. I am sure her weight contributed to the apnea, but somehow the solution was to remove body parts. My son is having a rough time recovering - as most older teens/adults do... I can't tell you how many people have called during the past few days and asked "did you hear about the girl in CA?".

Thank you, media, for your slanted, half - reporting! I will say, since I have very recent (a week ago) experience with my teen (18) having a similar procedure - his surgery was at 2 pm- he had only clear liquids after midnight the night before - he was STARVING when he got finished - and ate more (mashed potatoes, etc.) the first day since he has since. He has lost almost 20 lbs since the procedure. Also have some experience with ICU's recently, amy mother in law and stepfather both died within the last 9 months after a week or so in ICU. With my MIL, she was in a teaching hospital, and we feel like they exhausted every effort before we decided to remove the life support. With my step father, in a traditional hospital, it seemed like the doctors continuously did things that contradicted the other doctor's actions/treatment plans. He came off of a vent, out of ICU, into a stepdown room then was sent to hospice, where he died 5 days later. His personal physician came to his memorial service, had seen him in ICU, and was still in shock that he passed away. He is reviewing his hospital records to try to figure how he died. Maybe the family's experience was with the second type of ICU - I could definitely see why they didn't want to believe she was gone if that's where she was. I was on the phone with my mother less than an hour before her husband died, asking if she could get her husband moved into a rehab facility so he could get better.