...also, anyone know why all my stuff in my signature doesn't show up? it does when i preview it.
Hope your little one is feeling better.
The elements in your signature are probably exceeding the limit we are allowed by the DIS. It used to be that some DISers had very long signatures, which used up a lot of page space and memory, so they decided to limit the amount of space that we can use for our icons and stuff. My siggie is probably about as big as they can get (or close).
I'll leave the facebook answer to someone who is familiar w/it.