No iphone, but I bought an ipod touch today...same thing, no phone...now I have to figure out how to use it...bad part of being empty nesters...no young person to show you how to use these gadgets...years ago when VCR's first came out, ours sat in a box for 6 months because DH had no idea how to set it up

. Can you imagine him with the iphone!! That would be a waste of money...it does so much!
Thanks everyone for your kind words about my past situation with my daughter. Sometimes I have to think back on those days and just remember how bad it could have been and how blessed I am to have her in my life.
My oldest daughter said a very odd thing to me...she said she was being philosophical and thought that as you get older you love your children less...I said, "WHAT?" and she said, "Well, I look at Nicholas and you don't love me the way I love him." My response was, "Well, I can't very well pick you up, hold you in my lap, hold you close and kiss you all night, now can I?" and she laughed. I went on to tell her that loving a child means that you have to let go...you have to give that child the feeling that they can be independent and not dependent on you. "The first day you went off to school, I wanted to hold you and tell you how much I would miss you and how much I want to be there with you, but instead, I had to think of your little feelings, and tell you how special you were, and how much fun you were going to have riding the bus and being with new kids. And as the bus drove off, tears streamed down my face." She remembered then how everytime I took her to the train station when she was in college that I would just cry and cry...and she said she didn't know why I was crying when she would be back again next week. I told her that was because I instilled in her a sense of well being, maturity, and independence. That is what love is, being able to let go, to stand back and just admire that beautiful young woman I once held so close....