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  1. J

    Found out about affair right before Disney

    Great advice. Survivinginfidelity.com is a great resource with many helpful people who share this nightmare of an experience.
  2. J

    Found out about affair right before Disney

    So sorry that this has happened to you. I recently found out about my wife's affair. Every person and situation is different, if it was my family I would go. I could understand not being able to stomach the trip though. It really is a decision only you can make. I agree with PP's get your...
  3. J

    Make a New Years resoulution

    I hope to stop making a certain person more important than myself when they do not deserve it.
  4. J

    Anyone here wear those ear gauges?

    How big were they? I have always wanted to do the plugs but have been scared that they will not close up if I do not like them.
  5. J

    Duck Dynasty and Phil Robertson

    Almost everyone's runs out at some point but I would not count on theirs running out anytime soon. I personally love the family though I only watch the show sporadically, they have values and are one of the few shows to display them regularly. When you look at some of the other big cable shows I...
  6. J

    Dialect Quiz

    It is actual about 45 minutes, I have never noticed a real difference in the people I have known from Detroit though. Outside of the two years I lived in CO I have always lived in Toledo, it gave me Rockford and Aurora Illinois and Grand Rapids MI.
  7. J

    Dis lawyers: Divorce/custody

    He did not exactly guarantee it, he did say that if her diagnoses was in fact what I said there was a 100% chance that I would get full custody. He was really dismissive of anything I had to say. He also kept calling DS1 a girl even though he was wearing all blue :confused3.
  8. J

    Dis lawyers: Divorce/custody

    Had my consultation today, he said I will not need anything else the diagnosis guarantees full custody for me. He seemed a little off though so I may go see someone else as well.
  9. J

    Dis lawyers: Divorce/custody

    I thank everyone for their input, it is greatly appreciated. I have an idea now of what I need. I am still facing the internal struggle of what I want to do with this situation. Through all this I still love my wife to death. Under normal circumstances I would be ready to fight tooth and nail, I...
  10. J

    Dis lawyers: Divorce/custody

    Its not her account, it was supposed to be a joint account for planning our Disneyland trip but she lost interest( I should have known something was wrong then :)). She has never used it though.
  11. J

    Dis lawyers: Divorce/custody

    I know by posting this most will think I am trash, I can take it. I am not ashamed, we were a normal happy family until about six months ago. Something in her head snapped and here we are. I need the advice but on top of that one person might read this and see that they do no have to be ashamed...
  12. J

    Dis lawyers: Divorce/custody

    With that I will just sit back and listen. Thank you everyone for past and future posts.:wave2:
  13. J

    Dis lawyers: Divorce/custody

    Thank you, this whole thing is new. I know she is sick and I completely forgave her the first time. I want her to get better more than anything in the world, but I can never look at her the same at this point. I still love her and maybe long term things could work but right now I have to end it...
  14. J

    Dis lawyers: Divorce/custody

    I do have an appointment with a lawyer on Monday, but this is happening real time and I don't want to miss out on anything.
  15. J

    Dis lawyers: Divorce/custody

    I know there are some lawyers here and I am hoping someone can ease my mind a little bit. The wife is having an affair as we speak, the first time she slept with this person she checked herself into the Psych ward because the voices in her head told her to drive in front of a semi. While in the...
  16. J

    Two Years After Losing His Wife To Cancer...

    This is exactly what I was going to say. At my age I cannot imagine losing my DW and what it would do to me. They appear to be around my age, your not ready for it ever but especially then. I personally find it touching and I hope he got some kind of healing out of it.
  17. J

    If you could live anywhere in the US, where would you live?

    DW has always talked about Savannah, GA, I have seen it mentioned here. I would be open to moving to the south but what about Savannah is so appealing?
  18. J

    6 year old suspended for sexual harassment

    DD5 started kindergarten this year, her first two days she was kissed by three different boys. I know this is going to sound like I think she is perfect but whatever, she is innocent. Before her first few days in school she would have never she would have never considered anything about a BF...
  19. J

    Have you ever had a nosebleed?

    Honest to God I am completely flabbergasted that there are more than a handful of people that have never had a nosebleed. I have been dealing with a lot of stress lately and I have had a nosebleed everyday for the last week. I should really get my BP under control.




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