1. if you want to be able to take credit cards, you will have to change ot a business accoutn, which means you'll pay a fee if they do or don't use credit card. If you don't want to, make sure it's clear in your auctions that you don't accept credit cards. I personally feel it's worth the cost, as I think you get more impulse buyers.
2. I use my primary account as one of my Paypal accounts, and have for years. Several feel it's safer not to. It's really about your comfort level.
3. Although I have a debit card, and I understand that you get a small portion back into your account if you use the debit account when making purchases, I get more back from another credit card I use, than I get from Paypal. So again, it's whichever way would benefit you. I sweep my Paypal account into my checking account and do all my charging using a credit card that gives me 5% toward a GM vehicle.
Hope that helped some. Good luck and much success on eBay!! It's free listing today, so it's a good way to get your feet wet (listing only is free..not gallery, 10 day auction, etc).