BF and I are casually thinking about buying our first home, and our friends/relatives know this. I had a cousin commit suicide, and my mother (granted, after some time passed) suggested buying her home to me. I quickly said "no way" and she asked my reasons:
a) it just creeps me out. i wouldn't ever feel comfortable.
b) i know the person. i know it happened in the house, where it was, how, etc.
c) i couldn't invite family to my home without feeling they might be uncomfortable, what they're thinking, etc.
I adore old homes, and understand those things may have happened, but something 80 years ago, or natural isn't too bad. I don't know that I would buy any home where someone died violently, a child death, or where it had been recently advertised somehow...make sense?
That's just me!
~Mira