As a former server in a busy restaurant myself (years ago), I have A LOT of patience. I do not want to be slathered with attention: be polite, smile, maybe if you're super busy just stop and acknowledge us???
I never had a horrible food experience in WDW (some not so great, but that's with anything). My DH and I celebrated our anniversary last summer at WDW. We tried Via Napoli for the first time. The waitress was super friendly and sweet, however, she had a 12 top right next to us and neither my DH and I nor the other couple next to us saw her again after she took our order. We waited, and waited, and waited for our check (decided to pass on desserts about 30min after our meal ended).... FINALLY she came by and insisted we get something because it was our anniversary. Told her no, but she brought it anyways. I just wanted to leave. Finally had to get up and ask manager for check. Like I said, super sweet girl, but had absolutely no time for us.
The next night was our actual anniversary and we had ADRs at O'Hana... THIS is the meal we were looking forward to- been there 4 other times and LOVED IT. I could only get a 9:20pm reservation, so needless to say, we were starving when we got there. Waited about 30m past our ADRs for our table (expected, like I said, been there before - still kind of annoying).
Right off the bat, service took a while. Finally our drinks come out (just soda) with our lettuce wraps. I was expecting the salad, had no idea the menu changed (my fault, didn't read the menu before). They were AWFUL!!!! Didn't eat them, still starving. No biggie, we will eat the wings and noodles like pigs....We waited and waited and waited... while the 6 top next to us (same server) who was seated when we got our lettuce, was already being served their skewers.
Finally our wings and noodles came, we ate some, but they didn't taste as good as they had before... but no biggie... meats and shrimp soon!! I do not eat red meat or pork. I don't ever put this on the ADR because I love chicken/turkey/seafood. I never leave anywhere hungry. Well she comes out with the meats, I pass (order a couple drink refills)... comes out 15m later with the meats again, I pass (no refills).... Getting kind of antsy cause I'm hungry and want some shrimp.. 10m later comes out with 2 sodas for EACH of us (drop and run)... couple minutes later, more meat... By this time I ask "so when are the shrimp coming?". Now she tells us that the big table next to us (remember the one who got here after us, who were already finishing their desserts) has a seafood allergy, so the shrimp will come out later. She then proceeds to LECTURE me on how I should have said I was a vegetarian on my ADRs. I'm not a vegetarian. I don't eat red meat or pork. She leaves, then comes back with shrimp and dumps about 20 on my plate. At this point we asked for the check and I left. They comped us one meal (didn't ask for it, didn't really want it)
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The waiting till the end for the shrimp didn't bother me as much as how much we were ignored and forgotten. I understand allergies (grandma with a seafood allergy), but don't really understand how a table that gets seated after us was finished way before we were. Our server never slowed down to make eye contact, or acknowledge us. Oh well. The good news is I don't have to worry about getting an O'Hana ADR anymore, LOL.