Who else will own up to being a jealous SO???

[florida-again]

I am!!!! I hate it and I wish I wasn't but I am! I can't deny it.

The green eyed monster lives in me and I'd never deny it!

 

[TKERBELL]

I will admit it - I hate it but the little green eyed bugger gets me at times!!!!

 

[gr8tpanther]

I used to be one of those, got to the point where it really didn't matter anymore. So now it doesn't bother me.

 

[DVCJEN]

I think my DH is fantastic-- good looking, smart and as sweet as can be---so yes once in a while I feel a little pang when I notice someone "checking him out". But I am not worried about his faithfulness or anything like that.

 

[Mermaid02]

I think my DH is fantastic-- good looking, smart and as sweet as can be---so yes once in a while I feel a little pang when I notice someone "checking him out". But I am not worried about his faithfulness or anything like that.

Here too. My dh gets better looking as he gets older. But guess what? He's mine, I win.

 

[Kitty 34]

I'm not, but my husband is....it drives me nuts.

 

[DisneyAddict_M]

My ex-husband wasn't jealous at all. That always bugged me.

My last b/f was the jealous type (not a lot, just enough to let me know he cared) and I just ate it all up. It helped that he was majorly hunky (a hottie jealous for me? Whoa!). Too bad he's an ex now.

I'm not really the jealous type. I have too much trust in people, which is actually a downfall.

 

[Brianne]

I used to be. Now, not at all. As I've told him (and he agrees), I'm cheaper to stay married to than to be divorced--plus, he has a guilty conscience working against him. I'm not worried.

 

[msmouse]

It is the trait I dislike most about myself. I am trying to change, but how do you change your inner most feelings??? The feeling is just there. I can tell myself to not feel that way, but that does not stop me from feeling it!

 

[ChrisnSteph]

A little jealousy is a healthy thing! But my dh has never given me reason to be jealous.

 

[hugsquared]

A little jealousy is a healthy thing! But my dh has never given me reason to be jealous.

Thats my thoughts. I don't fear that he would ever do anything bad, its those hoochie mama wenches out there I don't trust. And DH is so naive. There was a woman he worked with a few years ago that all but offered herself up on a platter for him and he was clueless. But then, it took him 3 dates to even kiss me I thought he was either gay and looking for a friend, or just not interested. I laughed at all his stupid jokes, put my hand on his leg, arm, shoulder...leaned my head over on his shoulder...nothing. He had no idea if I was interested or not I thought I would have to get neekid for him to notice. But he finally saw the light and its been a wonderful 7 years. And he doesn't have a jealous bone in his body.

 

[ChrisnSteph]

Thats my thoughts. I don't fear that he would ever do anything bad, its those hoochie mama wenches out there I don't trust. And DH is so naive. There was a woman he worked with a few years ago that all but offered herself up on a platter for him and he was clueless. But then, it took him 3 dates to even kiss me I thought he was either gay and looking for a friend, or just not interested. I laughed at all his stupid jokes, put my hand on his leg, arm, shoulder...leaned my head over on his shoulder...nothing. He had no idea if I was interested or not I thought I would have to get neekid for him to notice. But he finally saw the light and its been a wonderful 7 years. And he doesn't have a jealous bone in his body.

Are we married to the same person?! You described my dh exactly! I kissed him first, and I felt so stupid, he sort of just looked at me. I wasn't used to a gentleman I guess! I always tell him that I don't worry because even if temptation stared him in the face, he wouldn't know what to do with it anyway!

 

[jenm2878]

My fiance and I have been together eight years and are getting married in three weeks. I'm not the jealous type but he can be. Lately he's on a kick that he doesn't like me being good friends with a male co-worker who's also engaged. We're really great friends but that's it. My fiance isn't overtly jealous, but makes enough little comments that I know it's there.

 

[MosMom]

I think I would keel over dead from shock if I ever found out DH was cheating on me (lucky for him I wouldn't be alive to take him for everything he is worth). I trust him 110% and could never see him cheating so there is no reason to be jealous.

 

[hugsquared]

Are we married to the same person?! You described my dh exactly! I kissed him first, and I felt so stupid, he sort of just looked at me. I wasn't used to a gentleman I guess! I always tell him that I don't worry because even if temptation stared him in the face, he wouldn't know what to do with it anyway!

Hmmm, now that I think about it, DH does travel a lot for "business". Is he really visiting his "other" family?

 

[helenabear]

I used to be far worse than I am now. I really do try to keep my jealousy in check. Sometimes though, it rears its ugly head. I'm not proud of it, but I won't hide that I am either. I don't worry about faithfulness... I worry about other women and not trusting them if you want the truth. I think had I not dealt with a truly psychotic person in college, I wouldn't have turned into such an untrusting and jealous person. Amazing what a pathological liar can do to you

 

[florida-again]

I used to be far worse than I am now. I really do try to keep my jealousy in check. Sometimes though, it rears its ugly head. I'm not proud of it, but I won't hide that I am either. I don't worry about faithfulness... I worry about other women and not trusting them if you want the truth. I think had I not dealt with a truly psychotic person in college, I wouldn't have turned into such an untrusting and jealous person. Amazing what a pathological liar can do to you

Actually, my dad is a pathological liar and for that reason I find it really hard to trust people. Maybe that's why I get so 'weird' about trusting my boyfriend...
Interesting thought actually.....

 

[Shugardrawers]

I am a tad jealous. When Dh tells me he ate lunch with some woman I want her to get away from my Dh. Not because I don't trust him but because I don't want her around. Dh will NEVER EVER EVER cheat on me. He says he doesn't worry about my faithfulness either so he's not jealous. Why does that bother me a bit that he's not jealous??

 

[shortbun]

I had to tell a woman to back off my husband once. She was all over him at her own anniversary party, good grief. I met her in the bathroom and told her to pay attention to her own husband. She said,"Oh, ok." and didn't sit in my husband's lap again. I wasn't jealous but he was too polite to tell her to behave herself. Ok, maybe I was a little jealous. lol!

 

[Pugdog007]

Nah I'm not jealous. When I was younger maybe a little, but I think you kind of grow out of it.