But you hear the most complaints about BCV being dirty and worn. Far from "exclusive".
Maybe Aulani? It excludes a lot of members because it is expensive to get there.
I think of Four Seasons and maybe some Omni resorts as being more exclusive. And none of the DVC resorts fit that bill. I don't think VGF will even fit, more like Gramma's Florida beach home than Mar-a-lago.
Was just answering OP's question about the 7 on-property DVC resorts.

Haven't stayed at any really exclusive resorts and guess I'm just really easy to please.
