Do you extend common courtesy to all common strangers?
Yes! I will hold a door open for anyone, I will let the person in back of me with one item go ahead of me at the check out, if I see someone drop something I will pick it up and give it to them, if I bump into someone I say excuse me. I try to be nice and pleasant to everyone, no matter what they look like or how they speak, or what they wear.
Nice begets nice.
What is wrong with being better than someone else? Are you endorsing mediocrity for common courtesy?
If you desire to live outside the bounds of conventional etiquette, thats fine. However, you will be offending some people by showing them disrespect and an obvious lack of self respect in the process.
Its one thing to show your contempt for common manners but its quite another situation to show your ignorance of common manners. Let me give you a specific example using the Hats Shall Not Be Worn mumbo jumbo.
Most men know to remove their hats when the National Anthem is played. Yet some men dont seem to know that their hats should be removed with their right hand and that the hat should be placed at the left shoulder with the hand being over the heart.
If someone refuses to take off their hat when the National Anthem is played, that is their right. I support their right to protest and show their contempt for the USA.
On the other hand, when I see someone who removes and then fumbles around with their hat because they are unsure of proper etiquette, it simply reveals their poor upbringing and it makes them look foolish and uneducated in common custom.
Social graces and higher education often go hand in hand. I purposely avoid people with bad manners. I avoid uneducated and under educated people. I avoid people with tattoos and body piercings.
Appearance and perception play key roles in social interaction. I dont want to deal with people that display their ignorance for all to see. Let their friends, family, social workers and therapists deal with their problems.
I can't, I work indoors in an office, not in a lobby of a public building, or a train station, or in a saloon.I'm starting the countdown until this thread is locked.........I'm going in at 'locked by 12:30 Eastern Time'.
Also, I'm wearing my hat as I type this.
I'm starting the countdown until this thread is locked.........I'm going in at 'locked by 12:30 Eastern Time'.
Also, I'm wearing my hat as I type this.
I can't, I work indoors in an office, not in a lobby of a public building, or a train station, or in a saloon.
Tee Hee!
As far as when it will get locked, I think we are maybe 3 posts away!
Women-folk should not wear hats anyhow----when I'm at the local saloon, there is nothing I hate more than seeing women-folk in hats. Women are for birthin' babies, not wearin' hats.
Women-folk should not wear hats anyhow----when I'm at the local saloon, there is nothing I hate more than seeing women-folk in hats. Women are for birthin' babies, not wearin' hats.
LMAO...... so much more could be added there, but unfortunately, some would not see the intended humor and attack me for my under-educated, lower class, disrespect.
just a note.....I'll be at WDW starting this Sunday, and I plan on wearing visors (hat for you common-folk) every day.........feel free (if you run into me) to let me know if this offends you----I look forward to that dialogue.
Your use of "....." offends me....lets dialog....with our fistacuffs....![]()
I'll be on Space Mountain Sunday night around 11PM, lets do it.............................(notice the excessive ...... to enstigate you further). I'll give you $5 if you knock my hat off. LOL
Ohh..its on....I'll be the dude with a white tee...greesed hair and cigs in my sleeve! We can tie our hands togther and have a knife fight....
Ohh..its on....I'll be the dude with a white tee...greesed hair and cigs in my sleeve! We can tie our hands togther and have a knife fight....