I have a very stressful job, but one of the joys is that my supervisor is very much like me in alot of respects. We can only take time off if we have accumulated leave, so you have to save some up to take off whenever you like. If I want to stay home to spend the day at an amusement park with my kids on the Friday before school starts, she tells me to have a good time. If I want to take an hour of leave to get to the grocery store before it starts snowing, she doesn't say a word. She and I share alot in common when it comes to family/home/church, etc....so she understands whenever I ask to leave for something. Since I cannot take time off without having leave time, I always get paid and I'm responsible for my own work so no one has to cover for me. It's the one thing about my job that I most appreciate. Now that I see this in "print" I'm going to be sure to tell her on Monday how much I appreciate that.