What's wrong with me??

[dogluva]

Well, I want a lot of stuff I'm never going to get, but I don't dwell on it.

It doesn't make me want it less, but that's life.

If you have a good life and you love your husband, don't screw it up by wishing for something you can't have.

Just saw how old you are. You're too young to have kids and do a decent job of being a parent. Work on becoming a well rounded adult and partner to your husband first. When you're 30, talk to him again about being a parent. You'll probably be ready by then.

I had three kids by 27 and did a pretty decent job of being a parent if I do say so myself. I had three in my thirties as well. I am doing a decent job with them too. Your post is ridiculous. Some people can parent, some can't. Age really does not have a lot to do with it.

 

[disneyfreakk]

I was pretty much in the same boat as you are OP. I met my DH when I was 20 (married at 21)and he was 24. He told me he could not have children and I accepted that if we were going to be together, that I would never be a mommy. It was a sacrifice that I was more than willing to make to be with my DH. We married 3 months after we met and just celebrated our 13th wedding aniversary last month. We are DINKs and have a great life together!

Through out the years I have wanted a child, then not wanted a child, and back and fourth. It comes and goes. However, It hasnt really been an issue for me for the last couple of years. At 34, I dont really like being around kids anymore.

Actually, everytime I really wanted a baby we got a puppy! lol. So now we have 3 dogs. Maybe that would help you out too?

I know it can be hard OP, but you can get through this.