My older dd got kindergarten graduation presents only from us and her grandparents. I honestly don't remember what DH's parents gave her, but mine gave her a very nice Children's Bible with a cool cover (the kind that zips up and has a handle). She still uses it. DD2 is graduating on Friday (

) and is hoping for a Bible with a similar cover in her favorite color. (which I saw back in December in a Christian Book store and stupidly didn't buy as I knew my parents were going to give her one - and now they can't find one. I'm sure she will like what they get her, though. )
We are giving her a Breyer horse, because she's been wanting one
I would say any toy or item you would give your niece for a birthday or Christmas would be appropriate. It's not like high school graduation where you give something they'll need for college or Real Life
Also, although they aren't so thrilling to a child, we are deeply grateful when the girls get college savings bonds. I got lots of them from my grandparents growing up (along with a small item for "now" ) and thought it was nice but wasn't overly excited. I can tell you when I graduated without student loans thanks to my grandparents, I was grateful for sure! They really are the gilft that gives twice, as the child thanks you now, but will really thank you later
I'm sure he will appreiciate anything you give him. My dds even get excited when someone mails them a card (they love to get mail addressed to them) and they love gift certificates so they can go shopping themselves, and they love being taken out to eat. Once a month or so, DH takes each girl on a special "Daddy Breakfast" and they usually just choose Waffle House

but you'd think it was High Tea at the Ritz. If you took your nephew out to eat - just you and him, he would feel so grown up. Kids love having your undivided attention
Happy shopping!
Laurie
Edited due to inadvertantly turning Ian into a girl
