hmm staying at Swan/Dolphin, I've read lots of good reviews from the places there - some are more formal than others! Also, staying near Epcot, I've heard the Italian place is not good - but that's my memory... MGM too has an Italian place, you should research allearsnet.com. As many people that post will have that many differing opinions!! I was shocked that we actually enjoyed the table service place at Marrakesh, if you like standard Mexican fare, you may like San Angelo's. If you're really into steaks, cheese soup, and homemade pretzel/breads you cant beat Canada's LeCellier, but its expensive. Epcot even has McDonald's stands for French Fries, so you'll get anything, and everything, and lots of opinions!!
Oh, someone posted a "standard" fare at Wilderness Lodge, Trail's End, I think I'd add at the Magic Kingdom, counter service, no problem, all have the standard burgers, for sit down, check out the menu for Liberty Tree Tavern (aka LTT, its character for Dinner) Crystal Palace is character Breakfast, buffet, so you get to decide what works best for your family, for us, I just didnt want to spend "time" traveling outside of the resorts to eat... but I love looking over their menus!!