Your realtor is correct in not wanting to put the words "carpet allowance" in the listing. What that reads to other realtors is "I'm dirty inside".
Your husband needs to get on board with the hardwood/laminate floors. Carpets do not help to sell a house, new hardwoods or laminates will. Check with your realtor on this, she'll confirm it. Also, hardwoods and/or laminates are non-porous and will not trap dog odor like porous surfaces like carpeting and bedding will.
Your basement is a large part of your house. By putting the dog down there you are in effect making that part of your house invisible to buyers. Even if they are willing to go down there with a dog (and as a dog owner I won't go down there where there's a strange dog), it's going to smell like dog farts.
Selling is a total, complete drag. It upheaves your life. If you're gonna commit to selling and get the dang thing sold in this market, then you have to commit WHOLE HOG.
Get the dog out of the house when you're not there.
Keep the dog confined in a crate when he sleeps-you can move the crate into your car when you have to leave and that removes the smelly bed and keeps him confined when you're out of the house.
By now you're saying, oh, that's cruel to the dog. Well, selling a house is cruel to
everyone. My kids cried because i put so many of their toys away. EVERYONE'S MISERABLE. Why? Because having your house on the market moves your lifestyle into an unnatural state.
The houses that sell fast are the ones that are MOVE IN READY. Which means you've taken as much of yourself out of the house as you can so the new owners can see themselves in it.
Very, very few people see themselves in a house with a gassy bulldog and smelly carpets. They'll bring their own pecadillos to the house, of course (we all have them!) but when they look at it they don't want to see YOU, they want to see THEMSELVES.
Good luck, I know it's really stressful. Just take yourselves and the dog out of the personal equation and you'll do better-be analytical about the whole thing and don't take it personally.
